In nature, it’s generally the rule that a big, floppy, unretractable penis is a *major* disadvantage, as it’s just one more thing to aim for in close-quarters combat, whether with other humans or with animals. I mean, look at gorillas- theirs are smaller than ours! Animals that have large dongs also usually have a method of retracting it at least part way when not in use so as not to become something for some carnivore to chomp on first…
If there is any evolutionary ‘bent’ toward bigger phalluses in humans, it’s social. Period. Of course I don’t have the corresponding PhD to back that up, but it simply makes the most evolutionary sense.
In fact, one could argue that the biological disadvantage conferred by naturally being big is obvious; if it conveyed significant evolutionary advantage, then being “big” would be the norm. (But then you have a paradox, and demonstrates that this issue is all relative in the first place).
You could also say that perhaps this disparity was what caused man to invent liqour, as well. Thank goodness for virgins everywhere that there is such a thing as drunk, horny chicks. Can I get an Amen?