First time without a condom..

When she was on me I couldn’t enter her completely, she was half entered and I was edging.. it was the worst position I couldn’t do anything.

Hunter

Are you too big for her?

Not too big no… Well it hurts a bit but she’s not used to it yet (She only made love once before me, and let’s say 5-6 times with me)

Hunter

jackdaniel: what’s the rush to enter her? I suggested that you don’t do that, just let her sit on you and maybe slide a little back and forth. After a while your johnson will get desensitized if you just concentrate on relaxing and how much you love her. Then you can make an attempt to enter her, maybe after 10 minutes or so, still relaxing. You can do a lot of things in this position, like telling her to slow down or stop moving, you can retract, start over, etc. It is a good position since you have no other choice than learning to relax and get familiar with the sensation of her vagina ‘au naturel’. Or do a similar thing sitting in the sofa, her on top. Practice.

Well of course, for us to do a proper analysis, pictures of your gf will be necessary. An audio track would be a bonus. :D

Kidding aside, just keep a perspective that “this too shall pass”. As long as she’s a willing partner, keep at it, you’ll find it just keeps getting better and better.

I think too, that she’s probably flattered she can turn you on so completely, a good thing. Go with that.

Happy hosing!
j

You might consider experimenting with a cock ring or a strap that runs over the top of you unit and in back of the balls. This can do 2 things - enhance engorgement and increase staying power and still alow you the thrill of tissue-to-tissue contact. There are significant advantages as to pleasure for both parties in NOT wearing a condom including biochemical issues.

Good Luck,

MrTiPS

You do not need cock rings or anything of that nature. The same thing happened to me years ago, when I had sex for the first time w/o a condom. It is truly a mental thing. Yes, the sensation are MUCH better w/o a condom. However, try not to think about it. Think about something that is boring. The worst thing to do, is to let her get on top of you. B/C you have little to no control of her movement.

Like someone said early you need to practice. Both mentally and physically.

Couple of ideas. I used to be the same way and I figured out a few tricks. One is right before you get the point of not being able to keep from coming, quit and change position. The few seconds it takes to do this usually works for me to delay. I’ve heard that benadryl will slightly desensitize you if you take it a little while before sex. Finally tried it and that works too. And last and certainly not least…Orajel. Only tried that once but damn does it work.

The first time I had sex was without a condom and with a long term gf, and yeah I blew pretty damn fast. My trouble now is that when a one night stand comes around, I don’t think I’l be able to get it up properly if I have to wear a condom since I can’t even do it with my girlfriend. I hate condoms!

Jays : picture Liv Tyler with bigger lips and bigger breast and you got it =p

Thank You for your replies guys, I’ll work hard on it!

Hunter

I know this sounds weird, but I find that breathing through my mouth helps me delay. Also, making sure that she comes before sex through oral or whatever would take a bunch of the pressure off.

Sex without a condom is absolutely fantastic! You really feel the sweetness,the warmth and the wetness of the vagina and that’s pure heaven!
You need to pratice a lot a you should change position when you feel you’re about to come.Changing positions and slowing the speed of your thrusts should be helpful.A good relationship with your girlfriend ou partner would be very good because it would be easier for her to understand your problem.A remember this: I don’t know your age and for how long have you been having sex but you won’t be a “sex god” as soon as you star having sex.I takes time,many years anda that doesn’t mean with have to do it with many girls.Just one will be enough.Remember: it get’s better as time goes by and experience is aquired.
From a 24 year old male in Portugal.

NBP:6,8 inches ( 17,3 cm )
EG:4,8 ( 12,2 cm )

I’m posting this without eating and desperate for a good night of sleep.I can’t see the keyboard clearly! lol But I’m here in college finishing a powerpoint presentation and can’t go home until it’s finished.

Picture Link? (Please post a picture of her.)

I won’t be posting a picture of my girlfriend over the internet, that wouldn’t be respectful!

Hunter