First time without a condom..

Last night was my first “real” time without a condom and well it kind of.. sucked… I couldn’t control myself so I was on the edge after about 30 seconds… Then I thought we could change position so she went on me and it was worst.. I couldn’t even enter entirely into her without being on the edge again… I usually easily can go for 20-40 minutes with a condom and now I’m down to less than a minute.. please help I’m so broken inside….

Thank You..
Hunter

Where a condom than. You could also have her blow you first if your able to go twice

I think you were just nervous having sex without a condom. Just try to relax next time!!

Oh boy, the condom insulates the full sensation of a woman’s vagina around your cock.

So have this attitude: “We have a long time to get it right so we’ll just have to keep trying…..” or “Practice makes perfect!”

Anyway, the more you do it “bare”, the more your cock will get used the wonderfully different sensations. Remember, she’s feeling things differently also.

Happy trails,
j

The condom doesn’t feel good for her.. Should I try to ejaculate 2-3 hours prior to having sex? would it help?

Any other idea? I feel like a total loser since last night…

Hunter

Absolutely, blow a load within a couple of hours of going at it and then get back hard again and you’ll be able to do the mumbo a lot longer. Once your cock gets used to the sensation of the inside of a womans vagina you should be able to go longer.

I would say have sex without the condom, blow your load, and keep going until you get used to it. I’m sure you will.;)

Practice, practice, practice.

Any tip on how to delay? Because even when she blows me I can’t last long and watching porn alone too I can’t last long.. I used to be able to last a lot longer…

Hunter

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I would vote for 5 minutes before sex. Or as Dino9X7 suggested, have her blow you off to completion first. With such high levels of excitement without a condom, you’ll be up as good as new in no time…

Maybe if you relax with her on top of you, letting her just slide gently over your shaft for a while to get used to the different sensation. Kisses, hugging, just having a great time together with no expectations of anything in particular. Easy to stop whenever you feel it is too intense, and you can go on for as long as it takes to reprogram your body’s response. Just practice a lot like gprent said, accept a lot of “failures” which are necessary. Don’t forget that most women really love to help guys out of troubles like this, try to be open about the issue without putting too much focus on it when you are actually making love.

jackdaniel, What ever you dont hit the bottle.

This is kind of weird, but since I started doing PE I have found it much easier to keep on stroking right through an orgasm. I don’t know why, because everything still feels great (no loss of sensation). Perhaps the kegel exercises are what is allowing this. All I can say is I usually had to stop when I popped, but now I don’t even miss a stroke. We don’t use a condom so she feels me cum and can’t believe I am still stroking her. A couple of nights ago I thought I would see how long I could go and we finally had to quit because we both had all we wanted and it was getting boring. I felt like a freakin’ porn star.

I’m not telling you this to depress you because I was exactly in your shoes not long ago. Pre-PE I was a one-shot-johnny and it took 5 minutes or more of rest before I was good to go again. I believe if you really want go keep going you can. The hardest part is getting through the sensations right as you orgasm. I admit it can be difficult, but concentrate on making love to her and not on your orgasm and you can stroke right thru it.

I will admit there have been a few times recently when I tried an we were so into it (i was so turned on) that I couldn’t go much longer after cumming, but DAMN did it feel good to try. As the previous posts have said, keep on trying, practice makes perfect. Have fun.