Just had sex first time

I just had sex for first time and lemme tell you it sucked I couldn’t get hard that well id ont fucking get it, I get hard all the time but thats not th e point at first I used a condom then after second round with out one and I’m just trippin if I got her pregnant.. Just wondering how much sperm does it take to get someone pregnant and can’t precum get someone pregnant and the thing is I don’t even think I did cum inside her but still maybe precum..

I just stopped I got bored it was that bad for my first time and she say she was experienced but so boring and I just got tired and stopped so yeah how much sperm is needed?

Sperm is the magic pixie dust of fatherhood. A single drop and child support payments appear as soon as the kid drops out commando style screaming “pay for me!” A single drop will do you. Plus precum has a few loose spunk meisters floating in it.

So precum can get you pregnant.. So basically I might be a father huh?

It’s possible, unless she was experienced enough to be on the pill.

Just great.nothing but it’s possible answers.

Yup you could be a father. Congratulations :)

Some questions. How old are you? Have you had any sexual contact with a girl before, gotten a blowjob, had one jerk you off? Have you seen a real naked girl before? My reason for asking is that if any or all of the above were answered with a “no” you could have been nervous and that could have prevented you from getting hard.

You said you went two rounds. I’m assuming that means you ejaculated with a condom on but weren’t hard. Then you went again for a second round without a condom but you got bored and just stopped. Something doesn’t add up. First off I have no idea how you can cum without being hard. How long did you last? How much time passed between rounds one and two? When you had sex with her again without the condom were you hard then? How much time passed before you got bored?

I’ll add more comments and maybe some questions or advice depending on your answers.

BTW congrats on getting laid. Welcome to the world of men.

Yes it is possible though less probabale. But still possible nonetheless.

I’m 19 no I never had sexual contact or any of that with a girl yes first time I guess thats why I was nervous because I get excited like nothing and it was weird she was like laying on top of me all naked and I was even hard I’m like wtf to my self so pissed no idea and she was so my type nice chunky and thick and no hair at all anywhere. And no I did not ejaculate with the condom how ever my dick was wet.. But still I think I would know if I had an orgasm you know.. And I didnt .and thats when she was on top of me and I d say an hour and a half or 2 between the rounds passed by before we started then I came on top of her with out the condom and yeah I was doing her and I got tired very quick but still kept going id say about 20 minutes or so non stop moving but I didnt ejaculate and just got bored I don’t even know why it’s just either she was too loose or I wasn’t hard enough so I just got off of herand I felt my penis and it was wet, so I’m just assuming it’s the wetness of her pussy that got my dick wet right?
But I’m just saying even though I didnt ejaculate inside her still I don’t know if the precum went inside her and thats wat scares me if she can be pregnant or not..

And for reference I took a piss in between rounds if that is needed.

Also I just want to add another reason me not being so excited was that earlier in the day I masturbated about 5 times lol but yea. And I was very tired we did it around 330am.

Isn’t there a day after pill women can take now to make sure they won’t get pregnant? If she didn’t take the before pill before it started, I would go buy her the after pills now if they exist.

If there is can someone give me info on how to get them?

Yeah you were definitely nervous and not being able to get hard is a common occurrence for many guys. I’ve heard the story so many times but oddly enough it didn’t happen to me. So she was ridding you for a bit but you didn’t get hard or cum, understandable. Your dick was wet either from your precum, sweat from the condom or maybe it’s lubrication. So you took a break for about two hours and went again. Without a condom this time. Were you hard then? I’m assuming that you got tired from the constant pumping. Sex is a vigorous workout. Did you feel anything? I’m surprised that you went 20 minutes. Then she jerked you off. Yeah your dick was wet from her pussy.

The next time you have sex it should be much better. If it does happen again when your going to have sex, make sure to be fully hard before. Either she should suck you to get you fully hard or use her hand, if you even have an issue with it next time.

As for getting her pregnant there is a small chance that your precum could get her pregnant but the odds are very low. Since you used a condom and I’m assuming she’s not on any birth control method. Just to be safe she should get checked. Also next time it’s a good idea to have more than one condom. When you have sex be sure to always use a condom unless you KNOW she is on birth control and that neither of you are sleeping with anybody else.

LOL to jerking off five times earlier in the day. Also it being late could be another reason for not getting fully hard.

Search google for “morning after pill”

The morning after pill will make her throw up . Its in the over the counter section of your local pharmarcy.

See, this is why I keep saying that all us smart minds in this forum should develop a method akin to what I saw on the discovery channel where you bathe your balls in temperatures higher than sperm can survive in (Higher than 95-98 degree C so warmish on skin) for 45min a day so that no sperm are produced at all. This means you can still ejaculate(cause ejaculate is 5% sperm) and not worry about pregnancy.

Uh, while it is true that high temperatures will cause a decrease in the production of sperm, don’t count on it killing all of them. You want to shoot blanks, get a vasectomy.