Just had sex first time

Well that post was from a woman who asked a doctor so is the doctor giving invalid information?

While its possible to get a girl pregnant from your precum the odds are a lot less than if you ejaculated in her. Also there is no way you can ejaculate and not know it. Your story is that you were having sex for 20 minutes, got bored and she jerked you off. I think its highly unlikely that you came in her, didn’t realize and keep humping, then got bored.

As for STD’s you need to find out if she has anything. If possible have her get tested then get the results. When I lost my virginity and then had sex with a different woman later on I went to my school’s health clinic and talked to the nurse. She told me that I would have to wait a couple of weeks to take the test because no indicators show up until then. In other words I could have gotten a false negative. So wait a couple of weeks then get yourself tested. But if they girl is clean, you don’t have anything to worry about.

Well I was having sex for 20 minutes and got bored but she didnt jerk me off just didnt do anything just laid down. And it’s not that I got bored I was just geting tired as hell that was very late around 5 am or so the second round.

And she told me she took her last test for stds etc. 2 months ago and said she had nothing.
But yea I know that was 2 months ago..

But no one else knows information that precum doesnt contain sperm unless you had a previous ejaculation?
And that pissing after that previous ejaculation cleans it out and the next precum won’t contain sperm?

Whewww! Jacking off 5 times…hell I would have been sleep in a corner somewhere.

Mabey your ligs were fatigued. LOL I got fatigue just thinking about it. I wish I was 19 again!

The guys here are giving you some great advice. Keep it strapped up!

Rule #1 Don’t have sex with any girl who you wouldn’t mind getting pregnant!

Rule #2 Don’t have sex with any girl who you are affraid if the condom breaks will make you a daddy or have you instantly die right there on the spot from an STD!

If you find that there are no women left over…then go back to Jacking off!

I hope it’s not too late =(
Getting laid for fist time is worst fucking day of my life, I don’t even feel like eating, I’m sleepy all the time now didnt even go to school today and this week is finals which ihad a research paper due today.. All you people out there always use protection if ur a dumb fuck like me and note that I’m having this much stress just over precum.

Bodybuilda, your stressing waaaaaaaayyyyy too much guy. We all still make mistakes and slip ups.

I think most would agree that it is better to here the seriousness of sex in 2004 now then to continue the way you may have. (No condom, Free Ballin)

It is just too much crap being passed around for no damn good reason at all.

Well if you found out that it’s possible you got the girl pregnant or caught something wouldn’t you stress out..

And especially when the sex wasn’t even good at all

Absolutely he is giving invalid information.

Well aint that a bitch that info. Kinda took a lil teeny bit of the stress away.

I have been in your shoes. I would be very concerned at the age of 19 possibly being a father. I’ve broken and slipped out of quite a few condoms.

Just go get checked out, and be safe next time. Sh!t happens but just learn from your experience and you will be alright.

I believe the morning after pill can be taken up to 72 hours after sex. I think the doc will sometimes prescribe an extra dose of birth control pills and that has the same effect. Someone correct me if I’m wrong.

Most likely, bodybuildla, you’re gonna be fine.

So imma be fine if I get her the pills?

bodybuilda,

If you don’t start using the spell checker for your posts, you are going to have something else to worry about.

Ok here is the link for the information I said on how precum it self does not contain sperm..

bodybuilda,

I definitely feel your pain. A few years back I was having sex with my girlfriend when my condom ripped, and this was after I had just came. I was really freaking out. I stayed up all night long afterwards looking up emergency contraceptives on the Internet and finally managed to find a site that prescribed them over the Internet. The next morning we both went to the pharmacy to pick them up, she took them and about two days later her period arrived. I’m glad things ended up without her getting pregnant, but for those two days I was a wreck.

Since you never actually got any ejaculate inside of her, only precum, I wouldn’t worry about it at all. The chances that you got her pregnant are extremely minuscule. And I am speaking from experience. After that whole ordeal with my girlfriend, we both ended up becoming very lazy and went on to have sex on and off over a period of about a year most of the time without using a condom. I was just pulling out before I came. Now I’m not saying this is 100% to say the least and the case could very well be that one of us could have been sterile or somewhat infertile, so I sure as hell wouldn’t take it as a fact, but I believe it an effective method of contraceptive. From what I have read the main reason that the pull out method often fails is that the man must be able to pull out in time before he cums. I guess oftentimes the guy pulls out too late. And then I would suppose that there is that .001% freak accident of pulling out and the girl still getting pregnant.

If it’s only been a day or so and you just want to have more reassurance you should try to get the morning after pill. Where I’m from it requires a prescription but In California, Alaska, Washington State, New Mexico and Hawaii, some pharmacies will provide emergency contraceptive pills without requiring you to see anyone except the pharmacist. A downfall is it must be taken within 72 hours after you have sex, so I don’t know if you will still have time and in my girlfriends case it caused to her face to break out a bit for the next few months. Its basically a chemical concoction that tricks the girls body into thinking that its time to start her period and flushes everything out.

As to the controversy over precum containing sperm. I remember reading somewhere that it does contain some sperm but little if any motile sperm. Here’s one quote that I was able to find regarding precum.

“The chance of pregnancy is probably extremely low. Two small studies found no motile sperm in
preejaculatory fluid, but that is all the evidence there is. However, HIV *can* be detected in
preejaculatory fluid.”

References:

Ilaria G, Jacobs JL, Polsky B, Koll B, Baron P, MacLow C, Armstrong D, Schlegel PN. Detection of HIV-1 DNA sequences in pre-ejaculatory fluid. Lancet 1992;340:1469.

Pudney J, Oneta M, Mayer K, Seage G, Anderson D. Pre-ejaculatory fluid as potential vector for sexual transmission of HIV-1. Lancet 1992;340:1470.

This was off of the Princeton.edu website.

If your interested in reading more about pregnancy and emergency contraceptives, I have found that website to be extremely insightful.

Here’s the main web page.

I would definitely chill and stop worring. Everything will turn out ok.

Hope this helps.