hazard of anal sex?

Hi all,

First of all this isn’t a men’s health issue, but rather a woman’s health issue; but I figure it makes no difference and is still best viewed here since an anus is an anus is an anus.

Last night my girlfriend and I had had anal sex. She has a (somewhat) loose butt, so she usually tries to get me to do it without lube. For some reason I think the lube turns her off. She likes it to be her own lubrication. So it was pretty gentle at first, eased it in, let her do everything, I just stood there on my knees, she on hers. Everything felt good, she felt slight pain, it got intense and she told me to cum. So I came in her ass. After we finished I removed myself and noticed spots of blood on my dick. Later that night she noticed blood in her panties.

Here are my questions:

1. Is it bad for a person to have ejaculate left in the butt?

2. I realize the blood spots are not a good thing. What could have caused her to bleed? we were not excessively rough, although she did push back pretty hard a few times. What exactly is bleeding? Could this be a sign of another medical condition? Is this anythign to be concerned about?

I realize we’re not all doctors here, but I’m sure one or two of you have ran into the same questions/circumstances and I’d rather her not have to see the doctor unless necessary as she is not covered by insurance.

I appreciate any responses!

1.) No.

2.) The skin in there is fragile and easily torn. A sharp turnd could do the trick, too. Take care to make sure she’s relaxed, don’t slam against her too hard, and use lube if needed. She probably just tore a little skin when she pushed back hard.

You need to use serious amounts of lube bud. The anal canal is very very fragile and needs a lot of lubrication to accept the friction of a penis.

Anal sex is a hard thing to get right, but when you do……..DAMN!

Good luck bud
WI

Thanks KOG, You’re probably right, there was no lube inside besides her own, so it was probably just a tear in the skin. I feel better about it now. :)

I’ve seen bleeding after my own anal excursions, and it kinda freaked me out the first time too. However, when I was the one bleeding, I wigged out. I think I mentioned it on here a long time ago, but I went ahead and visited the doctor about it. He told me that it’s nothing to worry about and was probably caused by a stubborn BM. (yuck)

Okee dokee,

I am now throwing away my chocolate chip muffin and will give up eating until that thought leaves my pea brain.

Thanks again KOG

You can always count on me.

Wanna hear the experience that gave birth to the phrase “I’m applesauceing,” which is used when someone in the house is having to run in and out of the restroom?

It’s probably similar to “having a jelly baby.” My buddy used to date some chick who was into “mad butt love,” as he put it. I turn green at the thought, but he’s into “forays into fartland.” Anyway, he thought it was funny to describe it in detail.

He would say that after they finished, all the pounding had impacted air into her bowel, and after he pulled out she would fart like hell. She would also blow the carnage out of her ass - semen, vaseline and her own anal mucous, sometime a few hershey kisses. It would plop out in a ghastly blob, which she described as “having a jelly baby.”

Machtenx,

I’m not in to anal sex, (I can’t imagine my prick being pleasurable in someone’s ass), but I have heard if anal sex is rough, it can cause serious problems, especially for the woman. The tissues between the anus and the wall of the vagina are thin, and if torn, can cause shit to end up in the vaginal canal, resulting in infection or worse. Be careful! I’d do a lot of research on this if I were you—especially for the sake of your woman.

Horsehung

KOG you crack me up. I always look forward to reading your posts.

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