Holding Off Ejaculation TOO Long Causing Small Load?

Anyone have this problem?

When I masturbate if I try and come VERY close to orgasming and then holding it off for a good 30-45 minutes, I end up with a PATHETIC puny load of cum.

I feel like my penis just rejects actually cumming because I keep holding my PC preventing myself from reaching orgasm. What do you guys think?

There is the chance that each time you are coming retrograde slightly thus reducing the final load. There are some vets around who tried to become multi-orgasmic, they’d know all about that.

Did your PC muscle feel tired on the final one?

Next time you try edging and hold off 45 min until you do cum, do this:

After the edging and before waiting the 45 minutes, urinate into a clear glass. If you are shooting even a portion retrograde, you will probably be able to distinquish your ejaculate within the clearer urine.

Very strong kegels done during masturbation can easily lead to retrograde shooting.

Kegals are not the answer for holding back cumming. The best thing is to do the “reverse kegal” or relaxing as if you were going to pee. It may take a few weeks to unlearn the reaction to squeeze your pc, but the rewards are worth it.

anon1122, do you push hard during the reverse kegel, or just mildly, like when you are trying to pee a little harder? How soon before you feel like an orgasm is building do you rk?

I will have to LEARN this damn reverse kegel talk, seems to be excellent.

I HATE when my load is just gone though! One time a girl was expecting a monster load and it was 1-2 pathetic drops. She was like UMM??

I’ve gotten bad blue balls from holding off to long before. Hurt like hell.

I think blue balls are just part of it. The bottom line is that usually when holding off cumming for a while the load volume is increased, at least with me, and for some reason lately it has been decreasing dramatically.

When edging, I usually push out a little bit, like trying to get the feeling of initializing peeing. When I am about to have an orgasm, I push out pretty hard. What happens is I push out a steady stream of cum, but I will still remain hard. What I think is happening is that I am pushing out built up prostate fluid while holding semen in the seminal vessicles. I have been doing some reading and have read that if you still have semen in your seminal vessicles you will still be horny. What I like to do is push out a big stream, then one minute later bust out the rest. It’s like having two orgasms in one.

In my expirience if I hold the orgasm too long (30+ minutes) I end up ejaculiting full or a bit (I don’t know about retro I guess next time I’ll try the glass thing). If I climax earlier than this (like 10 m) I can hold back. Could be this due to a tired PC?

I think relaxing works better also, if I clamp the PC to hard when climaxing then is harder to get sensations right after.

its really a psychological thing. When you are about to come imagine that you are not. of course slow down the jerking. imagine your dick is a wooden stick that has no feeling. This will allow you to be the judge of cumming.

anon—
So let me get this right: Are you saying that after edging for a while you finaly commit yourself to orgasm, but as you climax you reverse kegal and the junk follows?
Do you stop manipulating yourself as you do this and then resume for the “second” wave?
-Cap

I’m just impressed that you can hold off for 45 minutes.