It’s not a matter of 1min vs 20min. It’s a matter of 1min vs. 1.5 hours of frustration. It took me 3 months to even be able to come with my very patient girlfriend. Not as glamorous as you think it is. Even though she came, the sex act didn’t seem quite complete without me coming. And believe me it was a blow to her self-esteem for what she thought was her inadequacy to make me come.
I even eventually went to see 2 urologists about it. They came up with nothing (except a prescription of viagra and yohimbine). One of them tried to humor me by saying I might as well go to Southern California.
Chainz 8, my problem actually came down to TMS (Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome). The website it here: HealthyStrokes.com
Anytime that I can come inside my girl under 30min without having to focus too much on that objective, it makes me really happy. A blowjob for me takes 45min even with 15min of vigorous pumping. The grass is always greener.
And back to the topic, +1 on hours of shooting time + TONS of clever editing techniques. Let’s all remember that porn is manufactured media.