How long can you hold out?

I’m getting tired of lackluster loads (for lack of better terms) and the usual dribble. So I figured I’d try and give up my daily wanking and try to fix this problem. Plus, porn gets real old after a while. I mean, I’m at the outer limits of porn. Chicks with dicks, fatties, even watching some gay cock sucking time to time and I’m not even gay. LOL. Porn just doesn’t do it for me anymore.

Craigslist, which is usually a feeding frenzy of women in need is no longer any good, thanks to the craigslist killer a while back. So basically I’m suffering from low libido. Happens time to time, but I figure it like this. Every time I unload by myself, afterward it’s like “well that sucked.” and then the tiredness sets in.

So, I’m turning over a new leaf and adopting a hands off policy. Wife hasn’t recovered her sexual vigor since we had our baby 2 years ago. The motherhood gene turned on and her sexual interest has dwindled to where she can have sex once a month. I knew that would happen. But at least I get to play, if I can find women. But anyhow. Back to the hands off policy. No more beating off. I’m so tired of having no energy and being tired.

I find that when you hold out, your energy level skyrockets. I’m on day 4 and I’m experiencing an aggressiveness like you wouldn’t believe. Not in a bad way but I’m talking to this girl online and just wanting to nail her. It’s taking me a lot of mental energy to not relieve myself, but I know the usual predictable result. So anybody else ever embark on such an endeavor?

Kevin

When it comes to testosterone, you’ll peak at 7 days and return quickly to just a slightly elevated level.

As far as large loads go, there comes a point of diminishing returns. It varies, but for me that time is 2 weeks.

Your testosterone will have you bouncing off the walls able to take on anything if you release once a week and make sure it only happens with a female, I feel lazy as fuck when I jerk off but when its with a girl I get tired but seems like I bounce back quicker maybe due to her pheromones which have been proven to increase testosterone as well.

I like to cycle this method by jacking it everyday for weeks sometimes and then when you go back to not touching yourself at all its really nice.

About 5 years ago I read the study that concluded Test peaks after 7 days then will lower and I have used it to my advantage to make gains in bodybuilding as well and grow beyond my friends.

These days just about every guy is jacking it at least once a day isn’t he? Especially since porn is so easy to access. Us that know this information has a decent advantage on the modern male eh?

I have tried holding out for weeks. But the same thing usually happens to me. At about day 10, I’ll wake up in the middle of the night and have to change my boxers because my body took matters into its own hands. Right now, I’m trying to limit my jerking off to only days where I’m not doing PE (my off days). It also makes for a great edging session/measuring on Sundays. Now, sex - that’s a different story. I never turn that shit down.

I have always had large loads it does not matter the frequency my volume is always about the same. My energy level does go down some after I ejaculate but usually returns in a few hours. As far as sex after children I experienced the same thing with my ex. I heard it explained this way once that seems to make sense. Sex is more of an emotional, feeling loved kind of thing for women and when the have children the child satisfies a lot of that emotional energy that they would have previously gotten from having sex. Men are more the other way around they need sex to feel loved. I know sex with my ex became almost non existent after we started to have kids. I was finding my outlet on the internet too. My advise would be to address this issue with the wife as soon as possible, get into counselling if you need to and get off the chats because that will lead to more than just chats. Get caught doing that you will be paying child and spousal support in no time. As far as your homo erotic curiosities don’t worry about it a lot more guys have them than they care to admit.

kfarrelldba:

Yep, add Grannies to that and it is time to give porn a rest.

GatorLandon:
Abstaining from masturbation for the sake of PE :thumbs:

Never pass up pussy for anything. :thumbs: :thumbs: :thumbs:

LOFL @ the grannies comment.

Wife and I have a good relationship. I’ve been getting side action since we met. We use to soft swing. Meaning no swapping of partners and meeting up again in 2 days. But same room stuff. I’ve had lots of women and none of them compare to my wife. I can separate the love from that because I never go back more than once and I never “hang out”

As for your comments about the baby and emotions, makes complete sense. Damn does it ever. I love my wife and I’m already paying $1300 a month for my 12 year old who lives with my X-gf so if I screw this up, I’ll be living in a cardboard box :)

Thanks for the info. It’s not that bad really. We have sex once a week. I just miss waking up at 3am to her having her lips wrapped around my cock and that type of stuff. So it’s not like we don’t have sex, I just miss some of the wild stuff we use to do. It kept things exciting. Now, things are just sort of dull. But I have to get off my ass and make it a tad better myself.

Well as far as that goes I think of it like this. Why do you think guys love watching chicks blow other guys so much? Interesting ha?
I’m not afraid to admit it. I have no desire to kiss a man, I’d puke, but I do fantasize about that here and there. Wife begged me to actually try it during a MMF once, LOL. I didn’t have the nuts, or the alcohol in me at the time to do it but sometimes wish I had.

Exactly! :)

The longest I managed to hold out was 2 weeks. After 2 weeks without ejaculation busting a nut was comparable to cataclysm.

I think I’ve gone like a month when I was in USMC recruit training.. But they shoot you full of hormones so you don’t even think about sex.. You don’t even get morning wood. It’s CRAAAAZY.

Also, sleeping in the same room as 90 other guys.. Do not want.

OMG, I wish my ex would have been that opened minded. Oh and the straight guys want to see big dick in their porn too. John Holmes was as popular with guys as he was with women. In Buddhist countries that have no social taboos about this bisexuals are very common.

I think a lot of women and men are becoming more open minded as the scarring of the fucking roman catholic church wears off. No offense. I consider myself a Christian and I sort of make up my own values / beliefs and my wife is the same. The brain is about evolution. That’s what the brain likes to do. When your creating the same and same experience over and over, you die, mentally and ultimately, physically.

My wife understands this and we are on the same page about it. So, we have done some wild stuff in the past. Most people we discuss it with are like “that’s wrong or that’s weird, or you guys are nuts” but you know they go home and wonder what it’s like. But they never go to the next level. They sit and wonder and wonder and never give up because they have some stupid past belief holding them back.

I don’t play that. Luckily enough, I found a woman that doesn’t play that either. I love my wife. She just understands that I’m a guy. People are not suppose to be captive to another human. I mean obviously that’s not working. Look at the divorce rates. Wake up people. Not you guys but the world in general.

I will make sunday my eyaculation day :p . If I had dry orgasms my T drops?.

bigger-8inchM!

Kfarrelldba I am a recovering Catholic her too. Is your wife American? It is rare to find a woman that is that open minded especially here in the Midwest. To tell a woman you mess around with guys is the kiss of death around here or anything else that is the slightest bit kinky. I have lived in big cities before and people are much more open minded than here. I guess a lot of it depends on where you live.

Yeah, my wife is American. However she’s what I consider “normal”.

She realizes 2 things.
1. that I love her
2. That I’m a man

So, she is secure enough to know that I will not leave her. However most people still have remnants of the Roman Catholic Church as part of their belief system and it shows. They deny themselves feeling good. You think God goes around all bummed out about rules all the time? Well guess what? There are no rules. There are things we know are intrinsically wrong. Sex with kids, hurting animals and people. I mean unless your really screwed up in the head, nobody has to tell you these things are wrong. This comes from above as far as I’m concerned.

But we judge, we condemn, we label. When we do this, we cut off a whole bunch of reality that we never will see. Nothing really phases me anymore as I don’t really have rules so to speak as others do. I know what is right and what is wrong. I don’t need a church to run my head, I’m doing just fine. People adapt and progress real slow, but they’re getting there. The collapse of the USSR, the crumbling of the Berlin wall and soon the crumbling of the Roman Catholic Church. Good Riddance is all I can say. Fucking politicians in robes is all they are.

I’m the type that would rather look back and know that I did some crazy things and be happy about it, rather than look back and be bummed out about what I didn’t do, but wanted to. I really do not give two shits what anybody thinks. I gave that up a long time ago. I have sucked cock with my wife and once alone. There, I said it :D

I know I’m not gay. The thought of a kissing men repulses me. Nor, do I like thinking about it. But there was a time that I was obsessed about sucking cock. I decided that I could not continue to wonder and it was an unreal experience. So, maybe I am gay :D But see, there’s societal conditioning, coming right out in the previous sentence about having to prove I’m not gay, LOL. Now even if I was gay, who cares? It would be my business and nobody elses.

Now WTF were we talking about? LOL