How to deal with my penis size anxiety and insecurity

I know there are some threads about penis size anxiety but I wanted to do this one myself to vent and to give you some more information about my personal situation so I hope you don’t get annoyed by this thread. I placed it in men’s sexual health because I think the mental part is very important to sex.

To start, I’m 6’2” - 6’3” tall and my weight is 170 lbs so I’m not overweight and my penis size is around 6.9” - 7” BPEL, 6.0” - 6.2” NBPEL and 4.9” - 5.0” MSEG so I’m around what it’s considered average in most studies I think.

Sometimes due to the penis sizes I see here on Thundersplace, on PEGYM and on the internet in general I feel as if the classical average of 6” of length (Not sure if BPEL or NBPEL) and 5” of girth was falling very short compared to the “reality” (I’m talking of what I see on the internet) where I see A LOT of penises above 7” BPEL and A LOT above 5.3” MSEG.

That plus the very big amount of comments I see of women talking about how small a penis is if it’s below 6” make me think sometimes that the average studies published are wrong. Of course it may be that what women think that’s 6” is actually 5” but I’m not so sure because I don’t think they can be so naive.

Me myself I think that size matters a lot when it’s about sex only and I don’t feel OK when I see my penis and it’s not that big as I’d like it to be. I’m not very experienced though. I have had sex only with two women, one of them is my current girlfriend from 2 years ago and the other one was only sex. Both of them have told me that sex was good but for both I was the second guy they had ever had sex with so they were very inexperienced.

Sometimes I feel really bad about my penis size and other times I just feel OK with it but I waste a really big amount of time thinking about it and searching on the internet for opinions and thoughts on the matter. I don’t like to think that I can’t be the best sex anyone could have because I don’t have the penis for it.

I’m sorry for the long post, but to end I’ll leave two questions:
- How do you deal with penis size anxiety?
- How good has been your sex life and how does it correlate to your penis size? (I’d prefer people with less than 6” of length and 5” of girth to answer but everyone is welcomed).

Check out measurection.com, a Support Group for guys with below average dicks and guys who perceive they have a small dick. You are in the latter category.

You will be told this many times, but no matter what kind of games your mind plays on you, you actually don’t have a small dick. It is in the average-above average area. Haven’t you don’t some reading on the trickery and reality of pornstar penises? I suggest you look deep into this forum and read a lot, there’s plenty of info.

Those porn penises might be big, but definitely not as big as your mind thinks they are. I promise that.

Most woman would much prefer a confident, solid man with an average dick compared to a low self esteem, insecure guy with a big dick. Think about that.