How to Detect a Real Orgasm

Good_knight wrote

”I only have a 4.5” or 4.75” eg at midshaft and have never really felt muscular contractions when making girls come, although many of them seem to think I’m a good lover. Is it simply that my girth is too small to detect any contractions?”

No, i disagree your girth isnt too small to detect contractions.Im only 4.2 at mid shaft and 4.5 maybe more at base and i can feel muscular contracts.I think it depends on the girl , some girls have stronger contractions than others and some work the PC muscles.

That’s honorable channel, but for the men who go into it knowing that they don’t plan to take that moment beyond a one night stand, why would they bother making the moment memorable for anyone beyond themself? Or the man who has multiple partners and wish not to get emotionally attached to any of them. Isn’t part of making it good for you and her about giving her more than just your dick and your love juice?

Some men treat sex like a sport. Like a cigarette. It’s something they can get anywhere. One may be a little more expensive to get (for comparison purposes, dinner and a movie) others are like some generic brand you pick up when you are low on change (pick some one up in a bar). Some men have a harder times than other men getting laid. Same can be said about women. But if some men had their way, they would be with many women with many ranges in experience and I wonder when the giving is good and often (multitude of women) do men really care about if she gets hers.

Maybe I have been out of the game too long, but when I was on the roller coaster of what man which night, I don’t recall many of them waiting for me to orgasm or asking if I had or even wanting to improve their method, aside from saving face. Of course, I was younger then and the men in mentality were even younger.

As grown men I am sure a lot of you can say that you have more concern about the needs of the woman you are with even if a second night might not be guaranteed, but what about the young buck that is eager to shoot his guns off any and everywhere? Not trying to rag on men, really I am not. I just wonder if the 20-25 year old men are the same as they were ten years ago.

*Channeling my pig instincts*

If it were a one night stand and I were just looking to get off, I think I would still do my best to provide the utmost pleasure for my chosen partner. This isn’t so much because I’m a real giver, its probably more because I get off on getting other people off.

*end pig instincts for now*

I agree with KingUbu here. I get almost as much pleasure out of seeing my partner
enjoy herself as I do physically. Even if I have no real emotional attachment to the girl I still want
it to be a great experience for her.

Since you brought it up, until I know a particular girls signs really well I almost always ask if they’re ready for me to come or not - it seems like a fairly simple courtesy to extend :-)

My wife says:

“your turn”

I know that she doesn’t fake it because its only after a few minutes.

I take another few minutes to finish after she has.

In the past before she got into the habit of telling me to let go, I would go by the general tenseness of her body. She woud gradually tense up to a point then suddenly relax when it was over.

Often her legs will begin to tremble a little, her toes curl up and her eyes begin to roll back in her head and she makes strange involuntary “animal like” sounds (high pitch) that seem to emanate from deep inside her. She then digs her nails into my back without seeming to be aware of the pain she is causing (drawing blood) and last but not least she cums a bucket full of feminine juices that literally drench the bed while screaming out my name and saying OMG What the fuck are you doing to me!!!! Never in my life!!! You are so fuckin amazing!!! I always have to lay out a towel in anticipation of all this and I feel the I have to do even better the next time around and push the limits of pleasure.

Any more chest thumping posts?

Ouch..I think my chest hurts a little from all that thumping and I hope you don’t mind Luvdadus if I just lie down here and get a little rest. You are a Doctor, maybe you can give me a checkup and release my pic while you are at it (or somebody release it) :chuckle:

All I will say about this is that YOU’RE BAD

Thanks to which ever Moderator released it. Im actually feeling much much better now! :)

You see I even have the pic to prove it!!! (Thanks for releasing it in advance)

I met a nice lady friend in this pic, now if I can just figure out how Im going to do the nasty with her. :mwink:

Yes Sunshine but I thought that you already knew that….

…On the day I was born, the nurses all gathered ‘round
And they gazed in wide wonder, at the joy they had found
The head nurse spoke up, and she said leave this one alone
She could tell right away, that I was bad to the bone
Bad to the bone
Bad to the bone
B-B-B-B-Bad to the bone
B-B-B-B-Bad
B-B-B-B-Bad
Bad to the bone

I broke a thousand hearts, before I met you
I’ll break a thousand more baby, before I am through
I wanna be yours pretty baby, yours and yours alone
I’m here to tell ya honey, that I’m bad to the bone
Bad to the bone
B-B-B-Bad
B-B-B-Bad
B-B-B-Bad
Bad to the bone

I make a rich woman beg, I’ll make a good woman steal
I’ll make an old woman blush, and make a young woman squeal
I wanna be yours pretty baby, yours and yours alone
I’m here to tell ya honey, that I’m bad to the bone
B-B-B-B-Bad
B-B-B-B-Bad
B-B-B-B-Bad
Bad to the bone

I really enjoy these threads … they seem to confirm to me that there IS a normalcy in the world that I often times miss thru my native cynicism.

As to the topic: I have never had a “one-night stand” and don’t really know about them. All my “relationships” have been relatively long-term, -except the one that was causitive of my first marriage to collapse - and in the course of these relationships I have enjoyed some excellent sex with my partners.

Even tho I am not an “expert” lover by any means, I have always tried to make sure that my partner/mate has enjoyed herself as fully as possible. I am not now - hopefully will be - very well endowed, but I have found that touching, kissing, nibbling and “slurping” have gone a long way toward helping “her” feel the full experience of her sexuality.

A great resource for this is the classic, THE KAMA SUTRA. Even tho it is a bit dated and the language may be a bit uncomfortable for some (style, not content), this is a GREAT resource. In addition, the late LEWIS SMEDES, Theologian & ethicist has written one of the best books on the subject of intimacy called SEX FOR CHRISTIANS. It is not a “manual” or a “thou shalt not” book, and in fact, for the conservative Dr. Smedes was a radical departure.

I guess that it may be summed up in the truth that if one expects the best for their partner, one will be rewarded with the best.

Keep up the “chat.” I am a learning fool here … a regular fool elsewhere.

SHALOM!
wan2Bbig/Alex

This is great I am going to kep this in mind for I know thats it’s going to come in handy

I agree, although I am not even convinced that it is to do with the PC muscle. When my ex came she’d clamp down on my dick so hard that it was almost painful and it would squeeze and squeeze and squeeze. However, my current gf (who I might add has an extremely tight little pussy and works her PC muscle regularly, so it’s pretty strong) doesn’t squeeze at all when she cums, even though I’ve got extra girth from PE now.

Doesn’t really make any sense. But then she’s a woman - when do they ever??