How to Detect a Real Orgasm

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How to Detect a Real Orgasm

Real orgasms are not always as theatrical and loud as fake ones. Some people are silent comers and do not exhibit many visible signs. Real orgasms tend to have some of all of the following elements:

Changes in breathing

Increased vocalizations

Intensified movements

Involuntary muscle contractions

A pink or reddish flush on the face and chest

Sweat on the shoulders

Pelvic muscle contractions
Be Aware

Be sure that you want to fake the orgasm. You will be sending your partner a message that you are enjoying the sex more than you really are. If your partner is an ongoing lover or spouse, think hard before giving him or her the impression that he or she is doing everything right when that is not the case. If you are enjoying a one-night encounter, consider why it should make a difference to you if your partner thinks you have had an orgasm or not.

Men can fake orgasms too, particularly if a condom is being used.

Do not accuse your partner of faking an orgasm if they are not demonstrative, spasmodic, and loud. Conversely, do not accuse your partner of faking if they display all the characteristics of a faked orgasm.

Oh, my bad this is the first part of the discussion.

You can find this info in;

From The Worst-Case Scenario Survival Handbook: Dating and Sex by Joshua Piven, David Borgenicth, Jennifer Worick

Begin your vocal and physical ascent.
During sexual activity, start to make noise and move rhythmically.

Moan and cry out, building in volume and intensity.
You may say your partner’s name over and over. Many people, in the thralls of ecstasy, will blurt out sentences or requests that are utterly incompressible: try this occasionally.

Move faster rhythmically and then increasingly “out of control.”
As you approach (continued below)
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“climax,” increase the tempo of your movements, particularly of the hips. Add jerky movements. If you have not moved or vocalized much before you start to fake the orgasm, it will seem all the more fake, so you might need to fake enjoyment all the way through. (Note: If you do not usually move your hips during sex, try it. You may find it affects your arousal enough that you will need less faking.)

Contract your muscles
For many people, this is an involuntary side effect of an orgasm; the classic examples are toe-curling or fingers clutching the sheets. You might also arch your back, scrunch your facial muscles, or open your mouth wide.

5. Ratchet up the moaning and writhing in volume and intensity.

6. Culminate in a loud moan or cry.

Slow down immediately, tensing your body.

Relax, as if exhausted or spent.
Smile with enjoyment.

My Girlfriend:

Changes in breathing: She pants quickly
Increased vocalizations: Moans get louder and come to a screaming peak
Intensified movements: Whereas she barely moves up to the point, she rocks back and forth rhythmically upon orgasm.
Involuntary muscle contractions: Up to a minute before she comes, she shakes like she has hypothermia ;)
A pink or reddish flush on the face and chest: This happens quite a long time before orgasm.
Sweat on the shoulders: Uhhh.. nope hadn’t noticed that ;)
Pelvic muscle contractions: Depends how fast I am going and if I am wearing a condom. If I am going real slow and have no condom on, I can feel these. Otherwise I can’t tell…

Her unique little muscle contractions include:
a) Her mouth is usually gaping wide open, and it looks like she is trying to chew something very large and invisible that’s been stuffed in her mouth
b) Her eyes are scrunched tightly closed.

Good general information, channel7 :D

A pink or reddish flsuh on the face and chest…:D (Leave it to me) What is she’s a woman of color?

Had to ask. Good of you to share all this information to help the guys.

What is she’s a woman of color?

Go question I have no idea. Because I am a man of color

Spelling error, my bad

What if she’s a woman of color?

Good question I have no idea. Because I am a man of color

Are my eyes stuttering?

So as a man of color, you should be able to answer that, no? :D

Well, not according to what I post. But I have enough skills and wisdom to know when she is being real. I know this to be certain. Mainly because the way her leg shakes when I am hitting it from behind. Excuse my frankness.

Each and every time? :) What if she never trembled from your…work?

Well, there is always the togue. I have never failed. Any way, you tell me.

I do not claim to know it all. I am always opened to opinions.

Involuntary muscle contractions. Yeah, my ex had these bad. If I was lucky, she just squeezed the hell of the sheets, if I on the other hand were more on the unlucky side this day, I had another set of permanent scars in my back, shoulders and triceps. It was a gratifying view though and well worth it! ;)

Oh by the way, the key answer is communication.

LOL..I am just messing with you. I have no idea what a woman is like in bed so I couldn’t really volunteer anything. But I do know some guys really don’t know when a woman is faking it and these same guys probably don’t even care one way or the other. Some not all. I do love your efforts.

I am just saying that it is not just about me getting mine. I want her to experience the same pleaures as I do. I am willing to take the entire day to use up all my energy to see that she gets hers.

I mean every man should make love to there woman or friend like it is there last day on earth that is how I go about handling my business.

I only have a 4.5” or 4.75” eg at midshaft and have never really felt muscular contractions when making girls come, although many of them seem to think I’m a good lover. Is it simply that my girth is too small to detect any contractions?