I can't take it any more, sex lay off for me

I can’t do this to myself anymore, having sex and having that inadequate feeling inside. Last night I had sex with a girl I slept with before, and the turn out was just as bad as before. Although she has given birth to a child before, I can’t help but feel inadequate(size wise). I mean just like before, I fell right in her no problem, no friction, no resistance.

I thought that quarter inch I gained in girth would come in handy, that shit didn’t make a bit of difference, she made my 5.5 girth feel like 4 inches around. I have confidence in myself and all, but it’s just like it’s useless to even try, I think she could handle 6.5 grth no problem. I just hate to put myself in that type of situation with her or another female again, at least until I reach 6 in. grth or so. So I think a six month lay off from sex is definitely in order, I know 5.5 is great for some girls, but who wants to go through the pain and embarrassment of sorting them out.

In fact there is another girl I know that is throwing herself at me, but just like the other she gave vaginal birth to one child also. For that very reason above I humor her and joke with her, but will not allow it to progress any further than that.

T-rex;

Wow.

There’s nothing shabby about 5.5, yet you want to give up sex because you have no method of sorting recipients first?

Re-think that position, I think.

My thrupence is to go for alternate positions with big women (or women that over lubricate). Rather than a standard missionary go for her legs closed, yours open (or do the same from behind). If you can modify positions so that the legs (and vagina) are not opened up you will probably have more fun. Most positions can be modified without indicating to the girl that she is too large. Is that way too obvious?

Alternatively there’s always anal ;)

5.5 is a fine girth :)

I don’t get it. She apparently thought you were ok - you got into her pants a second time. Seems to me your criteria for feeling adequate in the girth dept is unrealistic. Now hear this, some days my wife feels tight and I have to work a little to get my little 5.375 girth in, other days - same woman - I slide in with little resistance. The difference is when she is hot and really turned on and wet she takes my girth no problem. When she is less turned on and not as wet it takes a little work to get in. Moral of the story: She is probably highly turned on by you. I don’t seem to hear you mention that she said to you that your girth was too small. In fact at 5.5 you are on the ample side. Does that mean that you shouldn’t try for more girth? Not necessarily, but I sure wouldn’t give up on sex when all indications are that these chicks really are turned on by you. Carry on!!

I hear what you guys are saying but, she is a nice girl and wouldn’t say anything to hurt one’s feelings. I bet I could get my fist in her if I really tried.

The main problem is I don’t think there is anything I could do to make her cum off vaginal sex. With that canal she’s got, she was panting like a marathon runner in order to get me off.

I often find myself asking women with children, if they had a c-section or natural birth. Maybe I just need to avoid women with any kids.

T-Rex, never ever turn down pussy, this is the best advice you will ever get!

joshua

T-rex…wow, you’re quite the mother fucker aren’t ya?

(All pun intended.)

lol j384!

T-Rex,

I’ve turned girls down or at least avoided their advances because of the size issue. It’s no good is it?

5.5 is good, I think you are right and you should try a chick with no kids, but remember that even some of those will be loose.

Anyway, I say go for your girth routine because even though 5.5 is good like I say, its obviously not enough for you to be content with, so do what will make you happy.

SS4

Women who’ve given birth vary tremendously in how much tone the vagina recovers afterward, at least partly because some women do Kegels to recover vaginal tone or they get some exercise down there from general fitness routines. I wouldn’t rule this woman out just yet.

Also, have you considered that you might seem loose to Woman #1, but so does just about every other guy she’s been with since her delivery? As the proverb about the two hikers in the woods running into a bear says…you don’t have to outrun the bear, just the other hiker.

Try working in more sideways motions in intercourse, rather than straight in-and-out. This will help both the women and you get more stimulation. Try odd angles of attack, making circular, grinding motions with your hips, riding up-and-down motions when you’re on top. Think of working your penis like a crowbar.

The problem isn’t you- fella. It’s her. She has a parous outlet i.e. she is all stretched out from having either many or one huge child.
You could probably put your head in and waggle your ears., from the sound of it.

Ease up on yourself and try the other lady, and remember: Never Give Up!

Maybe another position would help, but I doubt it. Tust the old Doc.

I totally hear you T-rex, I have the same problem. With my ex-wife it was a nightmare after our son was born. And then I had only 4.3” girth or less! It was before I started PE. Still even with that girth, some girls I’ve been with before my wife felt very tight. They didn’t have children though.

At the moment I have about 5.2” girth or a little less, and I just wish I had your 5.5”, remember this is quite a bit above average, most of the chances that woman you’ve been with had sex with guys that were smaller than you. So I bet she feels bad about herself even more than you do.

I know women think about those things, I once had sex with this really loose giant cunt girl (with no children) and she was quite obsessed with how loose she was.

It’s a bit strange, cause it doesn’t make sense - with an average girth of 4.9” how do men supposed to enjoy sex with women that gave birth.

Maybe evolution intended the fun sex to be anal, while vaginal sex is only for having children.

Anyhow - another technique I’ve heard about to help to feel more friction is - put your hand just above her vagina, a little below her bellybutton, and just pull the skin up, this is supposed to really tighten her vagina walls.

I started at 5.5” girth and was quite used to having a snug fit. If you go much larger you better have great psychology/4-play/oral skills to get things going or you could well regret a larger girth. (unless you are in a 1 on 1 relationship & she likes big)

Remember, from an objective POV you are now quite a bit chubbier than the “average” guy. Don’t let a size queen or two f*ck up your head. Taking a break might be a good idea, but not because you are to skinny.

I know what you’re talkin’ about man, I’ve been there too.

Maybe she just has a cow pussy.

As for myself, I’d like to increase my girth a lot… to the point of pain for the woman, as payback for all those years of female-induced self-hate. But then again, maybe I’m just a little fucked up in the head.

At 5.5” I’d say you’re doin’ all right there. She’s the one with the gaping hole.
Did she moan at least? Because I get zero reaction from my girl at the moment of penetration. Makes me feel *great*.

I have a quick question for some of you. My gf had a child before I met her. She was 16 at the time of birth and is now 19…. She feels nice and tight and I dont notice any difference between her and other girls (non-mothers) that I have been with. I am currently 7.1x5.75 and sometimes she feels loose, but I think thats just because when she’s highly aroused it reduces friction and just lets things slide better.

Just out of curiosity, what is more likely: She was extremely tight before the child and is now just normal, or she was slightly tighter than normal before the child and is now semi-loose?

She did/does kegels, but I dont think she did them faithfully and only a few dozen a day.