I screwed myself, help please

Ditto.

Glad to hear you agree with me, Sleepy. I haven’t logged into this site in months (for any reasonable amount of time at least) and I see lots of people talking about decreased sensitivity and such. I myself have mild Peyronie’s I don’t attribute directly to masturbation, but totally cutting out using hands has helped me so much, I’m kind of shocked to hear about people with chronically decreased sensitivity who continue to do that which [may] exacerbates their problem! Not that I’m now perfect, but it’s been a long time since I had a misfire during actual sex.

I’ve been clamping for over 2 months now and I realized if I want to keep doing it, I’ll have to watch a lot of porn, like 30-45 minutes almost every day, which is quite a bit if you ask me. I found 2 ways to get around that:

1. Lucky for me, I developed foot fetish not too long ago. Now I don’t need tits, ass, pussy or any kind of fucking to get aroused. Feet are just fine. :)
2. When I’m done clamping or when I masturbate, I don’t finish. I only let myself finish when I’m having sex with my girlfriend. That way I’m programming my brain not to consider orgasming to porn something normal or even desirable. It keeps my EQ high all the time.

UpTo7 check out the links in my first post on the thread.

Do you find yourself watching multiple porn videos at once ?
Do you find yourself watching more extreme porn genres then before ?

If yes that’s a sign of Too much stimulation from porn even if you don’t ejacuate your brain is over stimulated, and that fucks up your dopamine receptors, I am not so good at explaining just check the videos that I posted.

I actually watched parts 1 and 2 already and I plan to watch all of it. :) Pretty interesting how it all works, didn’t expect so scientific approach.

As for me, no multiple videos at once, no extreme porn. :) The most “extreme” porn I watch is anal and rarely squirting, but those are not necessary requirements for me to enjoy myself.

Maybe you’re not into women, maybe you’re gay. Nothing wrong with that.. Don’t fight it, just be yourself. Hope that helps.

Mmmm- while that MAY be true, not nexessarily from the facts here

You watch enough of ANY-damn-thing and it loses it’s capacity to -move- you

Which is why have periodic porn detox threads

Oh I am not gay guys :) I stopped the porn completely and my dick is getting erections a lot now ;) And only from women :P androNYC is right it was the porn which screwed me :P

I’ve yet to invest in a Fleshlight. When I visit my local adult store I look at the Fleshlights but they’re some damn expensive. When my wife starts working on the regular, I plan on getting one.

I just have 1 question. What is “extreme” porn? I’ve seen this mentioned on many occasions regarding ED due to porn over time. I really have no idea what “extreme porn” is.

If you have ever seen it i think you would know. (insertions, bsdm, etc…) but it really could be considered anything out of any(your) norm.

Not sure about others but my idea of extreme is things like, 2 girls 1 cup, beastiality, nut punching, women gagging on dick until they throw up, things that are completely over the top.

There’s an episode of South Park they modeled after the Grapes of Wrath, in which the Internet around the country went out so they went out to California to find some Internet. The only reason Stan’s dad wanted to go was to get some net porn. Funny as shit. I’m sure it’s on Hulu, but you’ll see the “extreme porn” he needed in order to get off.

Everytime I see the title of this thread I think of Langemann’s “stretching with anal thread” … . ;)

AhaHA androNYC I just realised the title of my thread is pretty funny “D:D :D