I'm in shock. I can't get it up anymore

Well I don’t know if it has to do with that it’s all in my mind, but I just can’t get it up anymore.
It’s ridiculous, the one thing that gave me confidence just went away.
I always could rely on my dick to be hard when fucking.
Now when I get an erection it just goes away after a few seconds.
The last time I fucked I even came after just a minute.
At first I didn’t feel a thing (she was tight) and all of a sudden I felt a lot and I just came.
This is a blow for me considering that I usually would go on for 2 hours.

Also, I have noticed that my libido is in a all time low. It’s just gone.
I seriously don’t get turned on the ways that I used to.
When I see something that I would get turned on to, I just like it, but don’t feel turned on.

I’m in total shock people, because it just happened recently (1 month - 2 weeks ago).
I don’t know what to do or what the causes are.
Is it because the woman I broke up with, alcohol (much more than usual), or just in my mind?
I stopped the PE also, because the feeling is different now like it doesn’t work anymore.
The ways I handled it was very careful but still enough and it seems now that it shrunk?

What can I do to turn up my libido, because this is ridiculous.
I get an erection once a day if I’m lucky.

By the way if it matters, I’m in my twenties.

Guys I’m freaked out, if you know something that can help please post it.

See a doctor and get your hormone levels checked if possible, try to rule out anything physiological first.

You’d be surprised at the physical manifestations that anxiety can take, if it turns out there’s nothing physically wrong you’ll need to start working to re-establish your sexual confidence in yourself. Spend some time trying to have erections/orgasms on your own, if you can get hold of small doses of ED meds that can help break bad conditioning about not getting hard.

It could be a combination of the break-up and the alcohol. Alcohol definitely has an effect on the sex drive. My guess is that things will normalize for you. See a doctor just in case.

Did you injure yourself?

JB-

What is your daily porn intake? Perhaps you are just de-sensatized?
Also, are you eating right and taking vitamins?

-=Ironbird=-

R dopa -

Hormone levels, like with the testosterone? I’m actually a bit, you know.. To go and see the doctor for that. Don’t you think I’m too young for the ED? It has crossed my mind though. Maybe it has something to do with the anxiety, maybe I developed some? I don’t know m8.. It’s ruining me.

Quickbeam1213 -

I am hoping so bad that it is something temporary. I love alcohol, but I think I should be drinking less. I almost drink 1 beer a day and in the weekend a lot more. I’m a bit uncomfortable to go to the doctor with this.. But if there is no other option I will go there.

Shortshorts -

No I did not injure myself. I feel that my dick has shrunk though. It’s a fucking pencil now, the way I feel it.

Ironbird -

Daily porn intake? Well I think once a week/once in 2 weeks or so.
I do get a lot that people say that I am not eating much for a ‘man’.
I weigh 65/70 kg and 1.89 cm in length. I don’t take vitamins and I don’t exercise.

I have a date today but I want to cancel it because of this.
Guys this is fucking me up.

Note that alcohol significantly suppresses testosterone, while raising estrogen by increasing the activity of the aromatase enzyme that helps transform testosterone into estrogen. It definitely will not help your sexual functioning. And yes, it’s embarrassing to talk to a doctor about these things sometimes, but that’s what they’re there for and if your doctor is good they will handle it maturely.

How much do you drink? I ask because I experienced the same thing a couple weeks ago (not being turned on, harder to get an erection, etc.) but for me it was due to an excess of soda intake. I have no idea if the two are related or can even be compared, but that was the issue for me. Once I realized that, I stopped all soda drinking and a couple days later, everything went back to normal as i I never had a problem in the first place.

Definitely cut back on the alcohol man. My suggestion was only confirmed by R Dopa’s more scientific explanation. Unfortunately, once an alcoholic, always an alcoholic. Many people who have been dry for years say that they still experience cravings for it. It will take will-power on your part. I don’t know all of the details, but you say you’ve been drinking more than normal and that your sex drive has plummeted. I definitely think the two are linked. Good luck with the date if you decide to go through with it. I wish you the best. Keep us posted okay?

- R Dopa

Well it’s better to man up and go to the doctor and have a solution, than leave it like this.
I don’t know, some time back when I got aroused I felt it even more when I got drunk.
Nowadays when I get drunk it’s not like that at all, maybe because my body got used to the effect or something?
Thank you for the advice m8.

- Skeebo

I drink like 1 beer a day almost. In the weekends I drink more.
Hmm.. I am going to try this out. Hopefully it’s just something as innocent as this.

- Quickbeam1213

I’m not an alcoholic, although if I keep up this behaviour in the end I will certainly be.
I just drink because I like the sensation of being drunk. I don’t do marijuana anymore, last times I did it I just couldn’t handle it.
When I did it those times a year ago I freaked out big time. I guess the alcohol is a replacement for that.
I also have to mention that that woman I am talking about was my first one, and I guess that all the sexual confidence was there.
Now that I have to find my way it is harder for me than I thought. Combine it with the alcohol abuse and you got a erection killer.
By the way, I did not went on the date.. I will save it until I get a solution for this.
Using ED meds would be cheating myself considering that before this shit I had no problem getting it up.
Thanks for the advice m8 I will certainly cut back on the alcohol.

Do you guys think that I should do PE or just leave it for a while until this is solved.
I did shrink on girth guys, without measuring I am noticing it.

Start with L-arginine + Horny Goat Weed. Try that first before Viagra.

Who isn’t?? :)

But the good news is that urologists hear about penis problems all day long. You can’t surprise them.

Factor everything in. Age, drinking, amount and type of PE, your own social behaviors and stresses.

Odds are that you can correct this with some minor life adjustments with maybe a little ED drug use, until you get there.

Just stop the alcohol and see what happens.

You’d have to eat 5 grams of icariin (at most extracts that 25 grams of horny goat weed) to have the effect of even half a dose of viagra, bit of a waste of time.

Are you intact or circumcised?