I'm the smallest they've had....

I used this forum quite regularly when I started PE a number of years ago. I haven’t been on consistently for a while and haven’t really been doing much PE over the last few years but today I had a comment that’s really gotten to me.

It’s the second time I’ve had this particular comment amongst others regarding my size. I kind of brought the comment on myself due to sensing this particular women wasn’t impressed with my manhood. Anyway, she said I’m the smallest she’s had.

I’ve never overcome my insecurities about my size and its led me into avoiding hundreds of relationships and comments like this just reaffirm that feeling of not being good enough. In the same week I’ve heard from another women I particularly like that she wants 8 inches minimum and she talks about her ex being too small.

I’m currently 5.25 NBP x 4.3 EG

I know there are more important things to worry about but I can’t help but feel inadequate and think that all women deep down don’t want to settle for a penis of this size.

Any advice?

Utter suicide fuel, somebody kill me now…

GIH,

I am speechless but I see so many of these post/threads and I just don’t get a fecking one of them.

So many things to say here… first, how in the hell do you even know this stuff? I have literally been with hundreds of women and it has never come up, never.

The fact that this is coming up shows your focus is in the wrong place while you are with a woman. You are laying next to a beautiful woman, beautiful lips, a sexy neck, breast that get you instantly hard, and a pussy just dripping with sweetness…. and you are thinking about your own dick. Sorry but wtf?

As for the size queen… dude, run! To want anything more then to nail her once or twice is just being sadistic on your part.

As for your penis, you are average to above average in length and average to low average in girth… add them up and you have an average unit.
No boo hoo…. welcome to the club of tens of millions of men.

Good news:
I highly doubt the size of your penis is an issue.

Good news;
If at some point you want a larger unit, get serious and you know this works. So you have the ability to make that change if you want down the road.

Bad news:
I highly doubt the size of your penis is an issue.

I appreciate Mike’s sentiments on this one.

Another thing men need to realize (women too) is that sometimes we are just not physically desirable to much of the population, this is life.

I’m 5’6” and always carried a few extra pounds. If a woman wants a man that is tall dark and handsome, well, that ain’t me.

She has every right to have her personal preferences and fetishes. Quite frankly, I would be an ass to keep trying to get that woman.

It’s ok, I have some steep preferences of my own. Lucky for shorter voluptuous thick women, because they have a fan, where as plenty of men would dismiss them because they are carrying maybe a bit more weight than those men might like as well as being not quite tall enough for them.

Such is life.

It takes work to find our sexual and emotional matches. So we just need to put the work in and realize that we will not be a fit for many. Rejection is normal, it doesn’t reflect on your value, it’s a normal part of the relationship process.

No worries because it is our differences that makes us beautiful and also what makes us not a fit for everyone, but just right for some small group of fans.

So go find your fans and believe in who you are along the way.

Ps

All of this has very little to do with penis size.

^ I love this guy!

+1

I started looking into PE for the same reason like ten years ago. As my cock grew to a point that I thought was ok for the chicks I go out with anyway, I started finding ways to make others inferior (specially women) lol it’s fucked up but it really cleared my head and makes me feel better (bitter whatever). You’re a good guy op I know you’ll find your better 3/4 if that’s what you want. If you just wanna Impress a chick I feel bad for you because it’s fucking tough lol they never have enough

“I’m the smallest they’ve had….”

Whenever I hear that, my B.S. radar starts beeping. Women will say these things. You are, categorically, not the smallest they’ve had.

Man you must be one mega Romeo if you have had to “avoid hundreds of relationships” whereas most people maybe have one or two dozens over their lifetime.

And are you saying that all women you meet want the unrealistic size of no less than 8 inches? In which jungle are you hunting (or being hunted)?

Always keep in mind when most women mention a size, they are likely off by about 1-2” inches…same as when guys boast. So her 8” minimum is really probably more like 6”.

We should move on and leave them behind with the grin on our face because the poisonous attitude they are having it is certain that they will get what they are looking for. And the smaller than us is the least of their concerns when it gets coming.

You are fine.

Don’t complicate this too much now. Her opinion is her opinion. Your opinion is the one that counts.

If you’re not satisfied with your penis size, start PE, start being serious.

Go for the 2 inch gain in length and 1 inch of girth it will take you years, but if you start now, you wont regret it.

You need to be more serious about PE there is no “I’m doing PE for months and then stop” etc

Want a bigger penis? Write down your stats today, RIGHT NOW, and start your journey.

It’s not that hard to put hot water on your penis for 5 min before and after the PE.

And to stretch and jelq for 5-10 min a day? Day ON and a Day off?

It’s 30min of your life, just start PE-ing seriously and wait, be patient, and do it for yourself.

You will never have a straight answer here, we all have different opinions and you need to form your on over the years of PE and lift it self.

Just stop thinking so much,

Come on day1 PE today in the next 365 days I want to see you gain an Inch of length and seeing you hit the gym!

It’s all a MINDSET. Nothing else.

I know a guy who literally has micropenis. Like when he was little they thought he might be a girl with imperforate hymen, puffy labia majora, and a large clitoris. He dates lots of women, and he even has other freaky-looking features like a weird chin and small teeth. But he’s kind and charming and has a reputation for pleasing women. It doesn’t hurt that he’s a certified genius.

The more you learn about how typical sex (with foreskin) works, the better you can accommodate for your shortcomings. Any attempt at penile-vaginal penetration before your partner has already had an orgasm is extremely ill-advised.

Any partner who is fixated on dating a guy with a larger-than-average penis is not for you. It’s that simple. But that doesn’t rule out very many women.

I wasn’t going to get into this and then I thought, why is she telling you this? To hurt, manipulate, control? If she was a decent person and she thought you had a small dick and dick size was important to her, then politly leave. Your totally average or even slightly above. That girl is just poison. Stay well away.

My first could cum 3 times with penetration alone. My second could not come through penetration. Third only has mild orgasms through penetration, oral rocks her boat. Recently I gave one woman 15 orgasms with just my fingers. Another had 5 and at the end literally could not speak. She just lay there with a strange look on her face.

And the one that had the 15 felt my dick through my pants and said, Shit I’m pretty small I’m not sure this is going to work.

Take home. Average penis fits average vagina. It not you penis it’s your insecurities.

I do PE now only because I enjoy it.

SB

Yes, here I go again, but there is a chance that what this guy says is legit, and he actually IS the smallest those women have ever had. According to his profile he lives in the UK like I do, and there is every chance all those women’s other lovers were bigger than him. Maybe significantly bigger. Especially if said women haven’t had all that many lovers.

I’m sorry but as far as Western women are concerned anything less than 6” NBPEL is small. People need to face reality for what it is. This is why I am battling for a minimum of this size and have been for all these years.