I've had a change of heart regarding PE!

I realize this is a very old post and the original poster probably isn’t here but I’m curious if there was ever any improvement and if he had taken Propecia.

I lived through the exact same thing about about three years ago, but this was pre-PE. Had my T level checked back then and it was 400, so the doctor all is fine and it’s in my head. Erections were near impossible and orgasm was something if the past… sex with my wife was non-existent. All I could do was please her orally (better than nothing). Saw the doctor again, saying things are much worse and ED has settled in and I was nothing more than a limp noodle and depressed. He ran a panel and said T was still 400 so it’s in your head and go see a psych and get some Paxil (I dIdn’t go). Last year; back to the doctor and told him I had ED, no libido, no erections ever, no morning wood of any kind, my unit shrank by over an one inch and was much thinner that I’d ever seen, testicles shrunk by 50%, lost 25% of my muscle mass, muchbof my facial and body hair had fell out and I cranky and miserable as a mule. I really thought i was at the end if my rope and just waiting and hoping for something serious, like a massive heart attack and be done wit it. The doctor ran another panel and my T was 200. Suddenly, he says I guess your T was too low at 400, which means that 200 a very serious problem and needs to be adressed asap. Low T contributes to cardiovascular disease and speeds up the process.. he says low T will kill a male. Fast forward one year, my T (last checked two months ago) was 932 (thank you, Clomid) and free T is well above the high range. I can now get erections, have a libido but there was a ton of nerve damage done to my unit since it was not getting used. Most of my unit was completely numb (more than 90%) and erections are about 75% EQ (big improvementioned from where I was at). Thankfully, through PE, I gained my inch back plus a bit, Clomid enlarged my testicles back to normal (which were much larger than average) and I feel a million times better. I think I have a long way to go to get back what I lost with the nerve damage but through PE, I think it’s doable… along with some girth and length gains. I’ve seen lots of improvements and I’m hopeful that I can be a normal male.

So that’s my story, for what it is worth. The OP needed to challenge the doctors over and over since they have no clue what is normal. He needed to take the issue in his own hands and explore all of the herbal solutions for increasing T. Never leave your health in the hands if a doctor, you need to be your own advocate.

…oh and I’m not looking for pity from my story, in case someone may think that. I share it, which was quite painful for me to write, so it can help others who may feel as I did.

iceman67 — Very wise advice. And I’ll chime in that not using your unit for an extended period can have dire consequences. In my case, I chose sexual abstinence after losing my wife. Just pushed all thoughts of women and sex out of my mind. My penis shrunk, and all sexual desire disappeared. After nearly fifteen years of this, finally decided to join the living. It was PE that turned it all around. May have been psychological rather than physical, but ejaculation actually felt painful rather than pleasurable. In time, thankfully that changed. So I too owe a lot to PE and Thunder’s Place and all my brothers who participate on this site.

Oh wow, I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m positive, I would follow the same path as you if my wife were to pass before me. I know I would be in a very dark place.

John

I hope the OP found the reasons for his issue. As someone who experience a change in sensitivity of the frenulum after just a few weeks of newbie manual stretches, I’d be inclined to believe that the times he went beyond the comfort zone with pumping could have just been the principal issue.

Fortunately in my case, the sensitivity issue resolved after about 6 months. That was last year. It has put me off any form of PE for now. I did gain an inch over time with just jelqing and have maintained it so I just have to be happy with that. Sometimes we think we’re being cautious but after weeks of months of not seeing results, going a bit outside the comfort zone could be more damaging than we realise at the time.