Keeping form?

Hi
I must say I have started and stopped for as much as one week for at lest 10 times throughout the last few years.

I gave up every single time for the same reason.
It seemed impossible for me to keep it semi-hard to do anything for jelqing for longer than 30 seconds after jerking it a bit. Then total flaccidity.
(I also suffer from delayed ejaculation if that is related)

I really want to get this going right this time but don’t really know what to do.

Currently measuring at 6.5BPEL and 4.25 for Girth.
Short term would be 7.5x5.
Long term goal would be something around the lines of a maintained 8.5x5.5

Any suggestions?

I guess I am the only one facing that problem!😅

Cheers,
E.

Delayed ejaculation is associated with ED. So is inability to generate an erection or to maintain an erection. Do you have erection issues in other settings?

Why not try a different method where that isn’t an issue?

I’ve had good results from light hanging and light pumping. The light hanger (.5lbs.) I put on and forget about and 20 minutes of pumping every other day at 5 inHg while on the computer is pretty easy.

I use a modified aquarium pump for pumping, so my hands are free to do whatever I need to do on the computer and it’s really hardly any bother at all.

I’d be interested to see whether or not this method works well for others and it seems like it could be suited to you.

No other problem. I get proper erections that can usually last hours. And when I finally come I usually stay hard and its kinda plateauing into easier climaxing. It really depends on the girl’s skills and how much she turns me on the last part but it is not uncommon for me to get two or three ejaculations without losing erection.

I was trying to keep it low key and see if I can get any results before starting to invest in anything really. I might give it a shot but I am very much the cautious type and everything around that site seemed to indicate to start slowly with jelqing and then when some form has been achieved maybe and only then consider the rest. Maybe someone can correct me on that. Otherwise, I wouldn’t mind having free hands to do whatever else.

Seems there isnt much info around this. Lets try this method. What hangers do you suggest to start with?

Why not concentrate your routine around manual stretching and do some pumping. You don’t need to keep erection in the pump, it will do it for you. Just try to get into the cylinder as erect as possible.

Like the bathmate pump and such you mean?

Didn’t you try to solve your delayed ejaculation?

I’ve been using a U-bolt type hanger. It’s easy to put on and take off because of the low weight I use (.5lbs.). It’s just an appropriate sized U-bolt that will loosely fit around the glans, a U-bolt plate (which you should buy it with so it fits) and nuts or whatever else you want to attach to it to bring it to the weight you want. I use micropore tape over the metal parts to avoid abrasion and to keep it from slipping off and I replace the tape when it starts getting dirty, scrubbing the hanger with soap between tapings.

You can probably pick one up from a hardware store. You could also use a padlock if you find one that is the right size, they’re in the weight range I think is useful.

I just wear it sporadically for a few hours at a time. I haven’t invested the time into finding an ideal amount of time or frequency for using a light weight hanger yet. I think more time is better, but if I’m feeling soreness I take it off for the rest of the day, which usually happens after about 4 to 7 hours.

I sincerely have no idea on how. I have thought about trying to solve it but that would require me to understand why it happens. I have looked up about causes - most relate to porn use which I am a user - possibly could be considered addicted too to an extend - I am about to see if PE actually solves some of it, some dick self-caring. I might try to meditate too. I don’t know, it leaves me clueless and me (and usually the partners) frustrated. Most of the girls leave thinking they did a bad job - which leads to short term relationships.

What was your first routine ever though? Didn’t yourself go through the rookie phase before starting the hangers and such tools? Ima try however, I am getting desperate about doing something.

I just am starting again to try the newbie routine. Still looking for ways to keep semi erect during jelq if anyone has a clue. Cheers.

There are many manuals to be done at flaccid state. Do a research. Hanging and pumping are also amazing. For the delayed ejaculation, try edging before.

Cheers

What do you mean by manuals? Where can I start this research?