Loss of erection

I have over the years experienced the following problem at various times. While having sex, as I am approaching orgasm and I am right on the edge, if I try and clamp down and not go, I will lose sensitivity and I lose my erection. Now when I say I am right on the edge, I mean right there. After this happens it takes at least 10 minutes or more before I am able to regain my erection. What I would like to know is has anyone else run into a similar problem? Also is there anything that can be done to prevent this?

If you mention this to your doctor, you’ll probably be given a 6 pack of Viagra to try, and in your case that makes some good sense. Viagra has a very common side effect of delaying ejaculation, especially at higher dosages. This side effect might happen for you so that you don’t have to clamp down so early on, and even if you do you won’t be so likely to lose your erection.

The thing is it does not matter whether I’ve been into to it for 5 minutes or if it’s been 20 minutes the result is still the same.

Well, try a new thing then?