Multi orgasm technic

A couple of things about fucking after cumming inside her…

- I found the best lube for my girl’s pussy is my semen. Slicker than anything I’ve found.

- If she cums, and cums hard, after you’ve ejaculated inside her, a nice surprise is that she ends up “swallowing” your semen. A woman’s orgasm serves as a reverse pump to suck the semen into the uterus.

This is why my holy grail is to be multi-orgasmic without holding back the ejaculation.

How old are you? As you get past your teens and early twenties, very frequent ejaculation is going to rob you of energy. This is why the ejaculation control practices were developed by ancient cultures, not to impress the chicks, but to retain male vitality. But let us know how it goes for you.

I’m 40.

Back when I was 25 or so, I could do it. Infrequently, but it was possible. My first two or three times on liquid cialis, earlier this year, I was able to do it again. Unfortunately it stopped.

Two things keep my faith in this. The Coolidge effect and the whole prolactin cycle.

So let me get this right, once you have become multi-orgasmic you can obviously have multiple orgasms but you have to stop stimulation between each in order to continue further.? Correct? So this doesn’t really improve your stamina.. I don’t know about other people but when I talk about improving stamina I mean improving the amount of time you can go non-stop thrusting before you ejaculate. I have been searching the forums for ways to truly increase stamina and I am curious if this does that? Or are there some other techniques to truly increase stamina?

Dipset,

Since your interest is in stamina, then look at it this way. In simple terms, when you “thrust away” you build up stimulation and energy. When it reaches a certain level, it burst out of you, in the form of an ejaculation, nature doing what it does to procreate. Now, if you want some measure of control over this, being multi orgasmic allows you to circulate the energy so it doesn’t reach that bursting point. If at some point you’ve had enough blissful trusting and want the ejaculation then you stop circulating the energy, let it build up, and blow you will.

As far as stopping stimulation, that’s really not the case. You may still slow down a moment during a “inner orgasm” but you don’t need to stop. Until the seamen leaves your balls you’ll have plenty of energy to keep right on going as long as you like. At least that’s my experience.

I tried stopping the ejaculation with my fingers (pressing between balls and ass hole) and although no cum came out, my cock wouldn’t stay hard for another go. Am I destined to just have one orgasm?

Also, I can’t get hard too soon after an orgasm (it takes a few hours for me, I think). In my teens I could have 3-4 orgasms with very little break between them (less than 5min I think).

Once the semen leaves the testicles you’re going to need a rest period. The kind of orgasm being called multi orgasmic always has the semen staying put. Although pressing between the balls and ass hole stopped the semen from leaving your body it did leave your testicles, which still means one orgasm.

As far as taking longer to recharge, welcome to getting older. Think about how long it takes me at 52.

Wait a minute… being multi-orgasmic means that you are able to have an orgasm or 2 or 3 ……. without the release of energy, without the contractions of the PC muscle and prostate, without the PC muscle squeezing your prostate, without the sperm moving anywhere, and I have experienced that .

So I guess this technique of squeezing the PC muscle right at that moment and a having a retrograde ejaculation is just an intermediate phase to what I described above, no?

I also experienced retrograde ejaculation and it`s exactly the same as ejaculation, except the sperm aint coming out.

You com to the point where it bec omes old hat, like many I was a two minute man, then 5,10,15,20,30,40,60, and now sometimes over an hour.
I use to go into edging right after jelqing, now I wait, I found that the sensitivity is more intense in all the orgasms. And the final one blows your mind.

But the advantage of doing it following pe is that the final orgasms last longer and I expel more cum.

This is one of the best explanations re becoming multiple orgasmic, I have read on this forum. However, I have a question. Many of the explanations refer to reversing a kegal or relaxing the PC muscle at the point of no return. What roll does this technique play in the process or is it best to squeeze down on the PC muscle?? I know in my case when relaxing the PC muscle at this point, semen is released, but I can go on stimulating myself back to the edge.. Please advise.

I consider an ejaculation that stays in your body kind of half way between an “inner orgasm”, where the semen stays put and a regular orgasm where the semen leaves your body. I find that if I do slip over the edge but hold the semen inside by a hard PC squeeze or pressing with my fingers, the recharge time is much much less than when the semen leaves entirely. I know some have said this “retrograde ejaculation” as you call it, is not good for you but I have been practicing ejaculation control and being multi orgasmic for around 8 years with no ill effects from holding the semen in.

I think this is where everyone finds there own path. Personally I have not found any success is reverse kegaling or relaxing the PC muscle if I’m right on the brink. I consider anything done at the last second just damage control. Being multi orgasmic is experienced further away from the brink than that. My focus is more around keeping the energy circulating and not letting it build up too much. Its kind of like a diffused focus where you feel all the pleasure but don’t get completely lost in it, kind of a form of staying conscious. You know how it is. There you are with this woman, her skin alive against you, so soft and warm to the touch, you’re going in and out of her, she’s moaning and rising up to meet you. You just get lost in her, what guy wouldn’t? If I stay just a fraction more aware of my own body than hers it allows me to ride the energy without moving towards ejaculation. Much easier said than done and its taken me a lot of practice over the years. Being aware of ones breathing during sex accomplishes this self body awareness quite well, a technique I use a lot, among others. Whats wonderful is that the pleasure only increases that much more which then requires more awareness, which then leads to more pleasure, and on it goes.

Yeah that’s when I hit my plateau and the D really blows up..
My ex would ride it furiously or grind me furiously when it got to that point causing the ejaculate every time. A very un-cooperative partner.! My ex that we just started doin our thing again I can least hours! Cooperative.

I learned how to cum multiple times and it’s great. I easily please my woman. I recommend when u pull out and need to rest that you give her oral sex while you are recovering from your point of no return.

Try to learn to cycle your thrusts. Small short thrusts to longer thrusts to eventually hardcore fucking her brains out.

Also when you feel your point of no return switch the position and start the cycle all over again or lick her pussy. They never say no to some licking hahah :P

I know this is an obscenely old thread, but I just wanted to thank both the OP and everyone who commented. I’ve been using the multiple orgasm method described this past week every time I masturbate, and it works PERFECTLY.

I should note that I’ve been doing kegels for years, all with the idea that it was good for my EQ and sexual continence, so I was starting from a really strong base. The irony is that I’d never really done anything with it, but the method described in this thread was easy for me to follow. Finding that moment *during* orgasm to SQUEEZE the PC muscle to allow for an orgasmic sensation without falling into a refractory period was made easier thanks to suggestions from commentors about starting too early the first time, then waiting slightly longer, then longer, etc. It’s made masturbation both fun and profitable!

There are some old thread revival nazi’s around here, but I don’t see anything wrong with it when it’s relevant. Congrats on your success.