Multiple orgasms without ejaculation

I have a question for the ones that understand this theory, whether its based on Chi, Trantra, Taoist, etc….Ive spent alot of time today checking out reviews on many different books regarding sexual energy. I checked out some reviews on Ki in Daily Life, The Multi Orgasmic Man, and Taoist Secrets of Love: Cultivating Male Sexual Energy which this particular one had something that worried me. A review on this particular book had a warning about someone that was practicing these methods of moving energy, chakra’s, etc… became very ill. Im guessing this was because of the misuse of energy. In the Multi Orgasmic Man, a reviewer wrote about energy as well, breathing techniques, and pressing on the Perineum once at the “point of no return”.

I have tried methods like clamping on the PC muscle as you would to stop urinating and it will prevent me from ejaculating but once I get back into sex, the feeling of having to go again is right around the corner. Many describe the feeling you get before ejaculating as the male orgasm which is seperate from ejaculating/releasing. If this is the multi male orgasms that these books teach you, its not what Im looking for. I dont want the feeling of having to “go” every few minutes and stop to having intercourse until the sensation goes away. While this constant feeling of orgams may be pleasurable to me and yet annoying for my wife because I have to stop every few minutes. She sometimes gets frustrated because she’ll be close to her orgasm and I’ll have to stop and pause while clamping like hell to prevent me from ejaculating. Im looking for a way to not feel this at all or atleast until shes fully satisfied then I’ll choose to go. Is this at all possible and what “reversing the energy” actually means?

It’s funny this topic came up, a few nights ago me and a couple of buddies were arguing whether or not this was in fact possible, I see it may actually be true.

I don’t know if it’s easy, but I’m getting the hand of it and I’ve been only trying a couple of days. All you need are a strong PC muscle and you need your timing right.

Mine seems to be like as soon as I free fall off the cliff of an orgasm or climax or whatever, I clamp the muscle and either no semen comes out, or just a tiny amount, which is OK since the erection doesn’t completely go away, and the sensitivity is not maximized.

To avoid that your wife gets frustrated you could consider caressing her or licking her pussy while you withdraw and clamp your pc muscle. That continues to built up her stimulation level and you can catch up a little later.

She’ll be SO happy as soon as she gets dick again.

Sometimes I do stuff like this but is there no way to keep the “orgasmic” feeling from arriving so soon? Clamping the PC muscle only blocks ejaculation, not the urge to “go”

“Release” is usually prepaced by clenching up lots of muscles.
So don’t stay there too long (clenched up) and relax completely instead to enjoy more of the good stuff ;)

Ys

I’ve found a combination of BC/PC muscle activity and breathing helps a lot. But the fact is, if you’re deep stroking at a constant rate you’ll blow fast. I’ll pass on a bit more Tantric methods:

1) Practice BC/PC. It can be used to delay orgasm as well as stop ejaculation so you stay erect.

2) While engaging in sex you should make sure you keep your breathing steady. One of the things the body does as orgasm approaches is speed up breathing, making it more shallow. Sometimes you’ll actually hold your breath. By breathing through your nose into your stomach rather than chest you somewhat short-circuit the process because your body isn’t seizing up like it normally is.

3) Take some time to get used to being inside her. Once fully inside just make shallow strokes - not a lot more than “grinding”. Do a reverse kegel for about 10-15 seconds, return to “neutral” for a few seconds, and then clamp that sucker down for 10-15 seconds. Watch your breathing - keep it steady.

4) Cool your dick down. After doing step two for a bit, try almost widrawing so you expose most of yourself to the cool air outside her body. Then do 7-8 shallow strokes followed by 1 slow deep stroke (the shallow strokes are cooling you down with the open air while the deep stroke will be felt by her more than the shallow strokes). Then drop the shallows to 6-7 and increase deep to 2. You are providing stimulation and exposing yourself to cool air to help delay orgasm. Then do 5-6 shallow and increase deep to 3. Keep doing this until you get to one shallow and 7-8 deep. You can now stay deep and repeat step 2 if you think it’s needed (it usually is for me). This allows your body and mind time to adjust to being inside her while decreasing the stumulation (friction and heat).

5) If you do get to the point-of-no-return, then clamp the PC down and hope to God it works :D . I’m still mastering this. I’ve had it work, but I’m hardly an expert.

Practice makes perfect - or at least for a good time :D .

This is the same as kegels correct? If so, I already do these.

Breathing is the only thing that I have found that delays the urge to ejaculate but its only temporary. I havent tried the deep breathing technique throughout though, maybe I’ll try this next time we engage in sex.

Clamping down on the PC will surely stop me from ejaculating as long as I stop stroking too. I can block the flow of semen with no problem, I just hate having to stop so often during intercourse to keep from ejaculating. This is what Im trying to overcome. Less stoppage, more humpage! lol

Guys I must release when the orgasm comes or tight?? These days I almost did it, tighten up!

Okay, this sounds odd, but it seems to help, and allows me to keep stroking (although not at maximum). While doing the BC/PC clamp and visualizing the semen running back up into your body, also clamp your butt cheeks together like you would if you felt a hand on your shoulder in the shower :) . Release and clamp while doing the PC/BC clamping, maintaining steady breathing, and visualizing the flow backwards into your body.

Heck, there’s no wonder this works. Trying to keep up with all that can make you almost forget you’re having sex! :D

Hi TP,

I thought I would revive this post as I can now do multiples without ejaculation.

There seems to be two ways to go about this. In the book How to make love all night long, Barbara Keesling, It appears that you get to the PONR and clamp your PC muscle for all its worth. The idea being that you will tip into orgasm but retain your semen and therefore avoid the refractory period. (I can’t do this way at the moment, I tip into orgasm and can’t hold the cum back and yes I do a fair amount of PC exercises for a year now).

The second method is to move the ‘energy’ around your body. (I interchange the term energy for pleasure) I was taught to breath in through my mouth like I was sucking from a straw and at the same time clench the PC muscle and visualise the pleasure moving up the body. This works well for self control as you are moving the pleasure away from the genitals. This method also lines up with the book The Multi-orgasmic man by Mantak Chia.

Now recently I ended up at a point where so much pleasure was all over my body that I tipped into what I call and mind or energy orgasm. Incredibly pleasurable but with my penis being at 4 out of 10 with 10 being PONR. The feeling built like an orgasm, peaked like an orgasm then subsided into a resolution phase. So I kept going and it happened again, and again and again. Two of these energy orgasms were so powerful my whole body was shuddering. At orgasm 15 I tipped into ejaculation with total loss of control (I kicked a folding table over) It was total bliss and loss of control for 20-30 seconds. And every time is different. Sometimes three, sometime 5, sometimes 1 or by one I mean no multiple.

I haven’t quite got to the end of the Crown Chakras post by BD, however this seems like something different again.

Has any one else experienced this?

ShaunBaby.

I’ve experienced quite the opposite: I’ll get close to orgasm but instead of emotionally yielding to the feeling of it, I relax (no tightening of anything), stop sliding my penis in and out, and focus on rubbing my partner. I’ll feel myself euphorically pumping out a little semen, but not quite having a full orgasm. So in less than half a minute I’m able to resume penile motion but it’s then quite obvious that I’ve added a dose of semen to lubricate things.

I’ve been able to do this close-to-the-edge maneuver often 3 or sometimes 5 times during an act of intercourse. When I finally climax fully, it’s frankly as if each of the prior near-orgasms has taken a bit of the energy from the climax. But anyway, it’s more like ejaculations without orgasm vs the opposite.