Originally Posted by Mr. Happy
Multiple orgasms are real, and definitely physiological. It is not really just about clamping the BC muscle down to prevent ejaculating.
The BC muscle is engaged, sometimes in a Kegel, sometimes in a reverse Kegel, to stave off the orgasm. It is similar to edging, but not quite the same. Whatever the mechanics involved, sex is not merely a mechanical process..
Not merely mechanical .. I perfectly agree:
In the second night with my gf I was touching her body very lightly and she started shivering without any signs of suffering from cold - rather as an indication of a rather unusual excitement which slowly built up when I continued to caress her skin, but nowhere genital.
Like in a more sexual encounter her shivering - energy level - built up when she suddenly rolled back from me and seemed completely absent for a minute or so.
When she ‘woke up’ she tried to explain me what she just experienced for the first time in her life of a 35 y o and concluded that it it was a very powerful almost ‘un-sexual’ whole body orgasm.
Due to obvious reasons (sexual encounter including ‘fare un giro’ as the italiens would put it - ‘take a walk’) she had developed pretty bad bloody urethritis yesterday so we couldn’t have penetrative sex. We had both a day off and were hanging out in bed playing around with each other trying to avoid her urethral area as good as possible (and avoid intercourse). She was on antibiotics, little drowsy, but we were both pretty horny and yet - under the circumstances - unsatisfied (despite of some orgasms, hers ans mine). The real thing was missing..
All of a sudden I started to feel a shivering wandering around on my body while she was holding me tight but not caressing, stimulating or anything, I just felt the strength of her arms legs around me, her body heat and her hot respiration on my neck. When she started to hear my moaning without obvious reason she seemed to understand what was happening, verbally enhancing my experience just when we fuck and she is giving some final preejaculatory comments..
I have never experienced anything like that before, but remembered her experience, and reading about whole body orgasms before. However, this happened without taoist or else inspiration or training, just so, out of nothing.
I have previously read about multiple orgasms and even have the little book but dislike the spiritual approach. Never done exercises (except a few tons of kegels, of course but didn’t). But just a day or so after starting to read the booklet I experienced my first non ejaculatory orgasm with her (the same lady).
Conclusion: with the optimal partner fit everything is possible even without much theory and exercises. To find such a partner is not trivial -: it took me almost 50 years and quite a bit of trial and error (not unpleasant in most cases). But with her it’ a different story .