Newbie-on-sex question

Yo guys !
I am 18. Well I just started making sex with my girl. We did it twice till now
I would like to know from the ladies and the well experienced guys on the forum how long it gets to the girl to be used with it and start having fun and pleasure with it. We almost could’nt do it on the first time, she complained much about pain and discomfort. That was frustrating hehe. The second time it was a bit better, we could do intercourse with no great pain , but she still complained a bit of it.

Later she said the she had discomfort and that doesn’t make sense a woman have pleasure with an object going in and out of her vagina

On the two occasions we had a lot of foreplay (almost one hour !).

I would also let you know that, with the fact that I live with my parents and so do she, it is a little hard to get to the good thing with her. The two opportunities we had had a time space of one month.

I spoke with a friend of mine, and she said that it took 3 months to her have her first orgasm. Before it all her sex was horrible.

Well I hope I made myself clear hehe. Hate writing big texts :/
Thanx, PEN

Penewbie,

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Sorry :D

Relax Penewbie.

The first time sex can be painful for a female. Just don’t worry too much about it. She’ll get used to it and enjoy it the more often you do it. Plus everyone gets better. Feel content that you have someone to share these new pleasures with.

In hindsight, are you like gargatuan or such down below? I mean are you like 8” by 7” and molesting this poor girl? ;)

Nothing beats practice when it comes to sex. Actual sex that is. Spanking doesn’t really count or I would have a Post Doctoral Major in it. Have fun and enjoy your youth.

Spoken by a bitter 27 year old man. TT

One thing that might help, penewbie, is to use a good lubricant until you get more used to each other. Some on you, and make sure she is well lubricated, too.

You said you did loads of foreplay , try bringing her to / very close to orgasm with your tongue (theres a post about the art of that) before initiating intercourse .Her discomfort may be due to the fact that she is not totally relaxed mentally. If she can relax while you are down on her ( many women find that a more daunting thing than sex) then intercouse may naturally follow.Don’t rush anything…

Make the time to be with her. Have sex in the car. Have sex in the back yard. Have sex when her parents are down stairs and your up stairs LOL. Hey It worked for me when I was a kid. The more you and her have sex the less painful it will be for her. Make sure you go down on her to lube her up and give her an Orgasm. Be careful protect yourself. I doubt you want any children or an STD.

I would also add to learn the fine art of seduction. Sex is so much more than just the physical act, you also need to incorportate her mind, and yours. Tell her what you are going to do to her, hours in advance, let her mind chew on that. Let her know you desire her. Foreplay needs to be more than petting, stroking, licking and sucking, although those work to get the juices flowing, the words that you use will do wonders for her head and really turn the passion loose.

Trust me when I tell you it works.

Give her some aspirin about half an hour before you start doing it. It’ll help. :)

She knows what she is talking about

It’s the mind

Like some one said all ready USE PROTECTION!!!!!!Have fun ,but safe fun ,and every thing will be fine.You are just starting to have sex ,and are not ready for a baby.You probably feel you love her to death,but believe me it will pass.SO,just be careful.