Normal length of sexual intercourse

Hi!

Just wondered if anyone has heard of any public statistics of what’s normal (lengthwise) when having sex..
Do anyone of you do the pc muscle exercises? Do they work? For how much longer can you hold it in?

In general.. Anyone have any tips to make me calm down and last longer?

If you are trying to hold back from unloading your jungle juice, try pressing your tongue into the roof of your mouth. This seems to work for some on the site. Also, try to focus less on the vagina, and more on your breathing.

>Just wondered if anyone has heard of any public statistics of what’s normal (lengthwise) when having sex..<

No, not me.

>Do anyone of you do the pc muscle exercises?<

Of course.

>Do they work?<

Of course.

>For how much longer can you hold it in?<

I don’t know, I just kegel until failure daily.

You people are great!
Never heard of any of these “tips”

Like I said before.. Thunder’s place best place ever

The “average” guy lasts 3-5 minutes.

Is that with or without a condom?

I do pretty well with a condom (15 minutes or so), but not so hot without one (right around 5 minutes, unless there is considerable foreplay performed on me, then it goes WAY down). This isn’t a problem usually since the girls I’ve slept with sober have been girlfriends and foreplay and afterplay (is that a word?) make them happy.

Kegels might be the most frustrating activity ever and I’ve never been able to stick with them. I think I’m gonna give them a shot again for a few months. 50 5 second kegels is recommended for the newbie routine, any advice beyond that?

Thanks again, these forums are fantastic. When I first came here, I really didn’t expect to see serious conversations - some of you who have been here for a while are great, thank you.

EDIT: Original Poster - Focusing on your breathing is great advice. Don’t think about lasting longer, that will just make it shorter. Rather, think about everything else you are doing. I find it’s ok to think about sex, what you are doing at the time, and especially deep breathing. The second I start thinking about lasting longer it’s over. Also, switch positions. If you are on bottom you’ll last longer (at least so I’ve found). If you switch from bottom to top, take a few seconds - please her for a minute or two, you’ll find that will add considerably to the time, and ultimately her enjoyment as well.

One technique I’ve recently heard about, but haven’t tried yet:

Right before you ejaculate, either take your hand off it, or pull out and do not allow ANYTHING to touch your penis while you are coming. It takes a little bit of control, but just ejaculate into thin air. Wait until the contractions fully subside and continue onward. You should find that the ejaculation is awesome, but leaves you feeling “unsatisfied” until something is surrounding your penis when you come.

This is from PE Forums posted by BK35.

I have never been a quick shooter. I screw um thill they just up and quit, Or get off enough. I have some serious control. Ones got a girlfriend off 39 times in a 3 hour period. The girls that know me know I am a great lay. This Fatboy is da bomb. hehheehe I dont bragg about anything but sex. Becaues its the only thing I am good at.

LOL! How do you do that though? Is it just something you think about or not think about? Any technique to share with us mere mortals?

I masturbated like mad as a teen in the high teens to low 20s each day for about 5 years, so I am the only one that can get me off. Good for the ladies but bad for me.

Masterbating does the opposite for me, It tends to make me more sensitive. I just started edging and this helps you control when you ejaculate. You should do some jelqs or manual stretches if time permits before you have sex, to lessin the sensitivity.

So the issue is you’re trying to last longer?

Well I’ve always been able to last (hold off) as long as I want and blow more than once with a low refractory period.
Yes you hate me, I know. But the girls love it.

However there has been the rare occasion when I’m tired, the pussy is feeling particularly good, and I haven’t gotten any in awhile,
and then it takes some real effort to hold off ….

In such cases somethings that help are: slow down, start giving her the long slow fuck, give her the Captains “root medicine” I think it was called. She’ll love it.

BREATH. If you haven’t noticed it, as you near the point of ejaculation your breathing increases dramatically. Learn to control your breathing instead of your breathing controlling you. Take a long deep breath. Take more than one, you’ll be surprised at how good it works. Also, YES think of somthing else besides that fine tight pussy that’s locked in a death squeeze on your dick or that beautiful round ass you’re balancing in the palms of both hands. It’s not a crime to do this, and it works.

And if all else fails, get what’s called “delay creme” from one of the sex novelty stores. Even the trendy chains outlets like lovers lane carry it. It absorbs into the skin, is odorless and tasteless so your partner won’t tell. This will let you put it on before things get started and if she blows you first, she won’t be able to tell. I used it once or twice for shits and giggles. It works as intended, you’ll still get hard, but in my case I had a hell of a time finally getting off.

Hope that helps.

Well this premature ejaculation thing would most probobly be the thing that I’m the most worried about.. And like I said I just turned 18 and actually haven’t even had sex yet since I’m trying to gain a few inches before the big debut.. And I wanna be the MASTER of sex then, I’ve only had experiences of coming early when I masturbate so I’m not really sure how long I’m gonna be able to last.. But I’ve heard that girls love foreplay and that could also be a way to get them to orgasm, wich makes it even worse for me since all of that teasing is gonna make me come even sooner :/ and when I try to do that pc-sqeeze when masturbating it only helpes me for about hmm 3-4 sec! Gotto start workin em I guess

Hey and there should be a forum section here were members can share their greatest moves.. I guess I could use a few pointers.. Stay well all

There is NO WAY to be a master of sex when you are in for the first time. With every time you have sex, and with every girl (especially girlfriend) you have sex with, you will learn. I am sure there are guys in this forum who had sex for over 20 or 30 years and who are still learning. Is that true, ol’ guys?

Don’t think about early ejacultion so much, because at your age, and till I was like 21, I was able to have sex many times in a row with very short breaks in between. And the girls love it when you just blew off and continue going on like nothing had mattered. I wish I could still do it now.

Word of advice, Get them off at least once in forplay and they wont say a damn thing If your a quick shot. Also if your worried about unloading too soon. Jack off once or twice befor you even get together. As for me I make the girls work for it, If they want to get off they got to get it up. Some women like a challange some dont, and if you cant get them off they might not come back to you. Get your girl off. thats the key.