Not getting hard regularly

Hello, first post. Do you guys feel that porn is still damaging if you don’t ejaculate? Can you use it for stimulation while clamping or is it still messing with your EQ?

While infrequent and non-habit forming porn is not as bad as habitual, addictive use, porn still stimulates dopamine production and release regardless of what happens when its being seen. In your clothes, or dick out hard stroking edging, the dopamine is being used. Gambling, drinking, shopping, sex, certain things trigger dopamine and the more it is associated with that activity, the more it becomes detrimental. Porn makes a man’s brain light up the same as a gambler’s brain when they are at the Blackjack table. Not all men are wired the same. Some men can get by on a little porn here and there. Light use, like some pictures or something like that, stirs some feelings. But an hour of porn with serious edging and a big release at the end is a dopamine excursion similar to a gambler sweating it out over the roulette table. And when he hits on black and wins all his money back, the feeling is heavenly. Or, orgasmic.

I say this because I used porn every time I did PE and pumped. Without doubt, it was on. I relied on it to get hard. I’d stand at the screen, stroke, get hard, and then walk 10 steps to the sink to get in my pump. As months rolled on I’d be limp by the time I got to the pump. So I’d have to hurry. This was a clear sign the porn was ruining my EQ and it eventually led to ED with my wife. I’d get hard in seconds on porn. I couldn’t get hard when my wife’s pussy was wet, red and plump begging me to be in it. After a month or so of completely no porn I was raging hard and fucking her good once again. Also, all my PE was like it was when I started PE 20 years ago: I’d be hard on my own, no porn or anything, just me, my cock, the mirror, my lube, and my routine. Now when I pump I’m harder than ever. Its hard sometimes to jelq because I have to let my boner fall to a fat semi, sometimes I have to do kegels so to wear my boner out so I can jelq! In the past on porn, I’d have to work hard to just get a semi sometimes. My PE routine is now takes half the time because I’m not wasting time on porn waiting to get me hard.

Its freeing to be off porn. I still try to find things to do when I lull during the day. I used to watch porn when bored, get hard, and tease myself for release later on. This was detrimental to my EQ and gave me ED and I didn’t know it was going to happen. If you want to increase your size, that means you should love your cock. Otherwise, why care about it so much!? If you love your cock, you probably love yourself. And self love is a way to reduce worry and stress. And with reduced worry and stress comes raging erections! Just my take on this, my opinion based on my real world life experiences :)

I have to parrot this everywhere, multi orgasmic man book by Mantak Chia makes you last as long as you want if you practice for a few weeks exercises given in chapter 3.

Just type multi orgasmic man . Pdf and it will appear on google.

Secular sexology is bullshit, all of their advices are worth shit, taoists on the other hand are still far ahead this atheist "science", 1 hour is no problem now for me and just a couple months back I confessed to lasting only 10 minutes and asked folks how to desensitize the penis, turned out that I found ways myself and posted them in one of the last active threads in mens health forum.

I say this because I used porn every time I did PE and pumped. Without doubt, it was on. I relied on it to get hard. I’d stand at the screen, stroke, get hard, and then walk 10 steps to the sink to get in my pump. As months rolled on I’d be limp by the time I got to the pump. So I’d have to hurry. This was a clear sign the porn was ruining my EQ and it eventually led to ED with my wife. I’d get hard in seconds on porn. I couldn’t get hard when my wife’s pussy was wet, red and plump begging me to be in it. After a month or so of completely no porn I was raging hard and fucking her good once again. Also, all my PE was like it was when I started PE 20 years ago: I’d be hard on my own, no porn or anything, just me, my cock, the mirror, my lube, and my routine. Now when I pump I’m harder than ever. Its hard sometimes to jelq because I have to let my boner fall to a fat semi, sometimes I have to do kegels so to wear my boner out so I can jelq! In the past on porn, I’d have to work hard to just get a semi sometimes. My PE routine is now takes half the time because I’m not wasting time on porn waiting to get me hard.