Obsessed with fucking a virgin

Hey,
I have this huge mental thing going on that I am obsessed with having sex with a virgin.

I have never done this and there is something inside me that is craving this.

Is this something that society has hard-coded in me and all the male species?

It’s fucking with my head and really getting me down.

Why do i feel that it’s so important?, is it just for bragging rights or the fact that I want the comfort of knowing that at least one woman will remember thier first time as one with me?

Cheers,
Cas

Don’t know about that. I stated on another thread that my wife and I popped each other’s cherries 33 years ago and been at it ever since.

Are you ok? What’s that red spot on the sheets? (hehehe)

Cascade,

Many of us here have negative views of our tools. Perhaps the desire to break in a virgin is no more than a desire to have sex with someone who has never seen a penis and so will not be critical of yours? Or perhaps you would just feel more comfortable because you would not feel she would compare you to past lovers.

I had a horrible negative view of my tool for many years thanks to a treacherous ex-wife. I found the more sex I had, with more partners, the less it bothered me at all. I did the virgin thing too, and in reflection, I believe the above was my reasoning at the time.

No matter what your reason though, I certainly see no harm in deflowering as a pastime - as long as you are not hitting the schoolyards picking on those too young to know what they are about or lying to an impressionable young woman in an attempt to change her life just to satisfy your cravings. Besides, in my experience virgins are lousy lovers. Give me a 35 year old divorced woman any day - they will do anything and love their work. A bonus is that they require little training, don’t bleed on the sheets (unless I use the cat on ‘em), and don’t cry as much when I make them walk the plank…

I’ve always imagined you guys up in Australia have cute little Polynesian, Filipino and Southeast Asian virgins washing up on shore all the time. That’s not the case?

:chuckle:
Unbelivaly you have probably helped me out alot here!
There are so many virgins around the globe that who really gives a fuck if you break a chick in.

I’m just lucky to be in a country where i can be free in what i do.

There are people under strict regimes that get to fuck virgins, but I live free.

And after reflecting I now think that taking someones virginity (or so to say) is rather a possesive thing.

In the end all that’s important is that we enjoy what we do.

We will all die someday, better enjoy the time we have now.

Just my opinion from my reflection.

If you blow yourself up, you’ll get 50 virgins in the after life. Or maybe its more if you REALLY kill a boat load of infidels.

Interesting humor.

cascade,

You do have a point there. In India, for example losing virginity before marriage is very rare.
You mentioned possesiveness, what I have in mind is if you are the first one, you are also protecting your ego because you are the the only one she’s had, you are also the largest !
PirateSteve, I disagree I think its great to teach someone about the joys of sex. Its like you are showing them to their own ” World of the Unknown’. They will also appreciate you if you do it right. Anyway, thats my two cents.

I was in the same situation like you. For years I wanted to fuck a virgin.
The reasons -

1.I wanted to experience first hand what it feels like fucking a virgin - all the emotions involved before you do the deed , the physical aspects like does the vagina bleed , does it feel tight

2.I wanted to be someone’s first .

After I actually managed to fuck a virgin I realised how silly it was to obsess over it. But I understand your plight , you won’t rest till you get your share of a virgin pussy.

But just be careful .Girls always get attached to the guy who takes away her virginity . If you are not thinking of long term relationship with that girl then be ready to deal with all her crying and wailing.

I wish you luck in your hunt

It is really nothing special. I hope I never run into a virgin again.

That was 6 years ago like.

He probably did.

I’m more curious to know how PirateSteve is doing. :D

Been there, done that, didn’t even get a tee shirt. Got blood on the sheets though. :homer:

Didn’t PirateSteve sail off the end of the earth? I’m more interested in how Anna is doing. Haven’t heard from her in a while.

I thought there was an 18 year old and over age limit here.. Did we scrap that as of 2003?

I fucked one, I dated her for a year before she gave it up, the best pussy ive ever had hands down(not the first time though,its emotional and tight and complicated and bloody,not really all that) Im still with her and still fuck her it feels good knowing that your dick is the only one thats been inside her, and knowing that your girl isnt a slut thats been with a truckload of men.