Penile health suggestion for my son

I have a 12-year-old son, and he is growing well, lots of pubic hair and bigger ball than mine (make me proud of him). Am not going to introduce PE for at least another 4-5 years, but I want him to have a healthier penis, so my concern is:

1. Should I start introducing kegel?
2. He told me he starts masturbating every 2-3 days, should I tell him not to masturbate too much or just let him to have his own pleasure. (I have introduce him http://www.jackinworld.com/ )
3. What other things should a father tell his son about penile health issue?

It seem’s you guys are pretty open, something my father weren’t/are not.

Teach him edging, this way he doesn’t turn himself into a quick shooter over years of fast masturbation.
I’m not really sure what to tell you, I believe the general concensous on this board is wait until he asks, or you think there is a problem that you have to bring up, at a young age, there is enough to worry about besides his penis.

If he has access to jackinworld.com, that’s enough. He’ll learn enough stuff there to keep him busy until he finishes puberty.

I want to know how you know your son has larger balls than you and how you even started talking to him about masturbation, his pubes, and other subjects.

Thanks guys for your reply. You are right, edging is something I will have to tell him, and jackinworld will also keep him busy.

O yes, we are very open, I have 2 boys (12 and 8) and a girl (11). I am very close to my children, I want my children start having sex education at home, not from porn. I don’t want them mis-lead.

When I bathe with my sons, we discuss boys’ things. We talk a lot mens’ stuff, but not PE yet. I may give him a hint about PE few years later.

The very first time I talk about condom is when we were at a supermarket, they put condom very close to candy near the cashier, so they asked what inside the package, I bought one, and open it at home to my boy and my girl (but I didn’t mention mbuc used it for SuckXtender).

My wife had already talked about menstruation with my girl before she had one, so simply say, I always pro-catively discuss what I think if good for them, but I got stucked with this penile health issue, since myself has no much knowledge about it.

Hehehe there must be hard be open with a girl! Or not?

WOW, if I had kids I would be kind of shy and embarrased to discuss about PE’ing or penis health at all. *Thumbs up* to you :)

Big Girtha said that if he had a son, he’d teach him bed fowfers, but that’d be it.

A side notice on the topic of PE. This is just me, but I don’t think that it would be a good idea to intoduce him to PE if he doesn’t specifically ask about it or expresses embarrassment about the size of his member. Maybe he’s going to be a big guy. Maybe he’s just going to be satisfied with his size, no matter how big. Telling him about PE then, without any need so to speak, could plant insecurities in him he didn’t have before.

But if he expresses an unhappiness about his dick size, I would first show him ~ this and (girth-wise) ~ this.*

And only if this doesn’t settle any issues that are possibly going to come up in the future, I would tell him about PE.

More power to you by the way, for your open talk with your children about sexuality. It’s absolutely right that they learn those things from their parents (who else would be more proficient apart from a scientist perhaps?) and get the correct frame of reference before they start to believe in the fakeness of porn. :up:

*I know that the Lifestyle data has to be flawed somehow (standard deviation of 2.1 cm? Related to the mean value of 14.9 cm, that’s a mean error of ~14 percent! C’mon guys, not even astronomers consider anything above 10% acceptable) but I just like how the graphs are showing what average actually means.

I think talking to your son is a absolutely right thing to do concerning puberty. I never had a talk with my old man about any of it and had to rely on biology books to help explain my situation growing up. Sexual education doesn’t teach you a damn with in school either so you can’t leave your kids only on those references in my opinion anyway.

I say light wet jelging.

I say don’t give him a complex he didn’t ask for.

I agree.

By the way, and no, I’m not judging you, just curious. Haven’t you thought that your son is too old for you to bathe together? I understand you have an open relationship, but it just seems a little bit weird to me, maybe because I didn’t grow up like that.

Once again, is just a thought, I’m not trying to criticize you.

In the American culture everything seems to be sexualized. Nudity/bathing etc is not necessarily a sexual thing in every culture. My older male ancestors (European) were always very physically affectionate. I never thought anything about it until I started seeing that those same actions (holding hands/familial kissing) were perceived as sexual and twisted in America.

Wow meiya.

I’ve got a nearly 2 year old son. I hope I can be as open as you are with your son when he hits puberty.