In my younger (re: unmarried) days I would kegel and masturbate to PONR a lot to develop control. I was able to get to the point of keeping an erection going for hours while not ejaculating. I was able to understand my body and understand when I was ready to cum. I got married and found condoms to be a real pain. My wife was on the pill, but then went off of it because of complications. We have practiced ‘natural methods’ for over 15 years now. We have not had any problems. Surprisingly, the pill is only ~ 90% effective. Both my wife and daughter have gotten pregnant when on the pill. My advice - if you are not worried about STDs and have very good control, go natural. If you have any concerns otherwise, use a condom. But then again, I am not a doctor either …
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