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What if my problem is lasting a lot after my girl ? What do you think? Sometimes it can get very hard for me to cum but not to get a hard erection with her in front. I usually can cum and find more pleasure in masturbating ( doesnt have to involve porn). I dont get nervous or anything is just that I dont cum for a while and is not very pleasurable.
Dia 1/Day 1- 15 mayo/May 2013- 15 cm X 13 cm. Ahora/Now- 16cm X 13.7cm.
I’ve struggled with porn induced ED before, back around two years ago when I first started dating my ex. I was single for about a year and watched porn sporadically and was fine with having sex with other girls in the time I was single. Never had any issues.
Now I’ve been seeing this girl since January and have been dating for a while now. It took me around a month to sleep with her and I had no troubles with an erection for the first 2.5 months.The last month I’ve had trouble getting it up for sex, and if I do I usually can’t keep it up, and if I can, I rarely ever finish. Except two days ago I finished twice in under 5 minutes back to back, but I usually last 30 minutes with her and don’t blow.
I’m not sure if this is psychological or physical. I don’t think I’ve masturbated or watched porn in like 3 or 4 weeks. And I wasn’t have troubles before that when I was watching sporadically. My biggest worry is that its physical. She gets quite wet and is a squirter and I lose a bit of feeling after around 15 minutes of sex especially if she cums before me. But this hasn’t stopped me from finishing in the past. I’m not sure if it’s because I don’t make her cum 100% of the time, slowly increasing to around 40% of the time now. So I’m not sure if I’m mentally worried about making her cum so that’s affecting my ability to get it up.
I don’t mean to thread-jack, I just figured this was a good thread to ask some people to see if they had any advice with what I should do going forward. I’ve considered going to the doctor to get some bloodwork done. Mostly because my girl wants me to and I’ll do it to give her peace of mind.
I have had episodes where I couldn’t come and it was with women who I wasn’t emotionally attracted to.
What are your feelings for this woman?
Began December 2009 at 5 7/8" length and 5" girth.
As of December 5th 2012 7 3/8" BPEL and 6 1/8" base girth.
Going for the magic 8"x6"
I like her a lot. It definitely isn’t that. Things are going great with her so far. Today and last night I came 3 of the 4 times I had sex with her. She didn’t cum once. She just gets loose when she gets close to cumming and gets so wet I think she loses sensation and then thats it. It’s frustrating. Need to do some girth work I think. Like every time I make her cum it’s a huge squirting orgasm but it seems to be so difficult to make her cum.
I think my issue is something to do with relapsing with porn a bit and for some reason it set me back. I don’t get as hard as normal but it’s been improving over time.
March 7th/2012 BPEL: 6.7 EG:4.6 June 4/13 BPEL 7.00 NBPEL 6.4 EG: 4.6
Short term goal: 7.0 NBPEL EG: 4.75
Coming back from a year long layoff.
Slipped up, watched some Skin Diamond vids. Oh well. Jelq and edge session today
Bone Pressed ERECT: 7.0 inches
Girth:5.0 inches at hardest(most erect)
Width 1 7/8 inches
My results have been amazing. It’s one of the healthiest things I’ve done in a long time. My view of myself, wife and other women has drastically changed.
The spontaneous erections are amazing. Just looking at her butt/breasts orjust a non sexual hug from the wife gives my a stiffy.
Even if you slip up, keep at it until you win!
Started 7.75x5.75
Currently: 9.75bpX6.75eg My Picture Thread
Goal:10.0bpX7.25mseg Building a thicker unit, click by click, pump by pump, jelq by jelq!
Had a session today, ended up watching some webcam porn and edging. Still counts. Will start up again tomorrow.
Bone Pressed ERECT: 7.0 inches
Girth:5.0 inches at hardest(most erect)
Width 1 7/8 inches
The most hardcore thing I’ve seen in half a year are boobs in movies/pictures. I can’t feel the difference. I guess I didn’t have a problem in the first place. :)
RE-RE-Started (21.03.2024): 5.5" BPEL, 4.5" MSEG
Current: 5.5" BPEL, 4.7" MSEG
Current Goal: 6.6" BPEL, 5.3" MSEG -- Long Term Goal: 7.1" BPEL, 5.5" MSEG
Good Viksenpai. You don’t have the issues some of us do.
It got to the point where I couldn’t get or keep an erection with my wife in the evenings. We were having problems also, which didn’t help, but the porn got all of me for nearly a year.
Began December 2009 at 5 7/8" length and 5" girth.
As of December 5th 2012 7 3/8" BPEL and 6 1/8" base girth.
Going for the magic 8"x6"
I agree with the porn sigs triggering relapse whenever I come on to this website. I am trying to quit porn myself. It has ruined my youth
Thanks everyone for your replies. Glad to see I’m not the only one actively trying to kick the porn habit (although, I knew that already).I’ve survived to Day 44, although, last night I had a dream that I went on a weekend-long porn binge. It started off with me “accidentally” clicking on a link that took me to Jizzhut, and then, I kept hitting refresh until there was a thumbnail on the homepage for a video with Sara Jay (she’s always been my favorite for some reason). So then I *had* to watch all of the new videos she’d released over the last month and a half.
Anyway, I woke up this morning and, because the dream was so vivid/I had a few too many last night, I was afraid it had actually happened. Thankfully, it didn’t.
Not sure what the dream means, but at least it wasn’t reality!
Crazy how the brain tries to trick you into trying to watch porn agian huh. I have intense vivid sex dreams while trying to go clean also. I think whats happening is you are not feeding the addiction anymore, the brain starts to trick you into giving in. It will do anything. If things get bad enough, your primal brain will take over your thinking brain and then you go into sex mode. Its very hard to overcome but it can be done. Easier for those who are mildly addicted versus those who watch 3 hrs and binging on masturbation every night.
Carr BC I’m really happy for you being able to quit porn. I’ve been viewing porn for a long time and I just started to go porn free recently. It’s been a week and a half and it’s tough not to think about it in my free time. Do you have any tips for staying away from porn long term.
Also what is your opinion on sexually themed profile pictures on Thunder’s Place? I find a photo of a beautiful woman pleasing to view, but also it can be tempting to me to view porn if I see a photo of a woman with little clothes on.