Porn Free for 42 Days!

This is a good thread.

I’ve failed miserably these past two days.. Looking at porn and edging, but no orgasm so I guess my resolve is still there for that. Mainly just looking at porn out of boredom. I need to find something to occupy my time.

…..like PE? :-)

books?

I think PE is part of the problem. I get hard for pumping and jelqing. Then, since I’m 22 days no pmo, it progresses from there.

I’ve severely fallen off the wagon the last few days. I’m going away to the beach for a week. Hot women in bikini’s is going to be tough. At least I won’t be looking at any porn.

I’m headed to the beach myself until Monday. Real Women in bikinis will be nice to look at and I’ll be surrounded by family so no chance for M/O.. Hopefully I’ll be able to sneak away and meet some cute tourist at bar for some fun!

I haven’t seen any porn for almost 4 months and I haven’t masturbated for 2.

The only benefit I’m seing is that I don’t get the regular drop in sex drive after… Well after having sex. Now only if I knew how to fix my premature ejaculation without edging… :)

Still no porn, but I kind of masturbated this morning. It was pathetic really, I just rubbed my dick in the bed while lying down and in 10 seconds it was over. I guess that the lack of action for a week fucked me up, but that’s no excuse.

I am really disappointed in myself and I feel like I really let myself down. Frankly, saying “I won’t do it again” doesn’t make me feel better. :(

I gave porn up for a few months and noticed:

Nothing. Nada.

It did nothing to help improve my EQ at all.

I exercise already, I don’t do drugs etc, so I’m unsure on how to improve it!

I stayed without porn, masturbation and orgasm for 21 days, this weekend I haved sex with my wife, best sex ever, my sexual life it’s 10 or maybe 100 times better.

I gave up porn and masturbation, maybe after my 90 days off I will do (masturbation) for PE purposes.

I am saying that because I thought I was cum very quickly too, I am not a quick cummer but after staying all the time I thought to just looking my wife was enough to me blow. But it’s was pretty much the contrary, I stayed for a long time, enough to make my wife squirt all the squrting juice she had, pass out and I came very hard on her face too.

Porn poison our mind.

“Porn poisons our minds.” Well said!

Do you masturbate all the time?

Got no real interest in masturbating, I don’t even get morning wood anymore.

Just nada there.

nice thread.

am also quitting porn and more.
I’m actually on a self improvement journey and reprogramming my mind by eliminating bad habits and installing new healthy ones.

my strategy is based on the fact that the brain needs aprox. 30 days to get used to new behaviors and over time the brain forms new structures and it becomes an automated process.
in my case it’s staying away from porn,stop drinking coffee,don’t smoke, doing something social every day, working not more than 8 hours every day and more.

the thing that had the biggest impact on my overall well being was quitting coffee!!
I was a coffee junkie and drinking coffee gave me emotional up and downs throughout the day. in the evening I was always completely exhausted with depressions and I craved for emotionally intense things like smoking,masturbating with porn,eating tasty unhealthy foods….
stopping caffeine intake(no coffee,no soft drinks) was very tough because I was addicted, but now being caffeine free I don’t have those emotional shifts anymore and it helps tremendously to focus on long term goals such es PE,no porn and a healthy lifestyle.

for me the combination of being caffeine free + the 30days trick is working very well.