Problems with the gf lately

I’ve been getting very good erection in the night and the morning, but when I am around the gf I’ve been having issues staying hard after foreplay. It takes a bit of work to get me going (sometimes like an hour). It wasn’t like that at all like 2-3 weeks ago, I’m not sure whats happening with me.

I’m just looking for advices/suggestions. Thanks you in advance friends

What’s your PE routine like?

How do you feel about her?

I had the same issues man, I just straight up told her I take a while to get comfortable with a girl and she understood. I also ordered 30mg of tadalafil and that helped me stay hard the whole time without any issues!

How old are you and what is your weight? Are you in shape. What do you do for a living. You may be stressed. Pin point this. How long have you been with her. Are you in good health?.
I know this is a lot, but these are questions you should be asking your self. Do you love her or are you in a relationship that you must think you have to stay there.

Hey man, I asked about what you do for a living, not my business, I am an mechanical engineer as well as a mathematical engineer, OH! on top of that, I am in charge of a lot of people.
Sometimes I come home and just want to sleep. Ms tnt knows how to get me going, but she knows me and how to get it up. Then again we are old school.

Hey guys, we are guys and we all have situation or problems. This is real, it happens.

Have you been watching too much porn?

Hey man thanks for the reply.

I’m 19 years old, 194.5 lbs (around 14-15% bf) in the morning, been lifting weights for 2 years and half now so I’d say I’m in pretty good shape.

I really doubt it’s a problem with my health.. Perhaps the end of the semester is making me stressed. I know I haven’t been putting enough time studying but I’m still confident. I major in Biology by the way :D

It’s very weird for me that this is happening because normally just holding hands or touching her would instantly make me erect.. It just doesn’t feel the same down there anymore when I’m around her, regardless of the night and morning woods.

For some reason I belive this started happening after I got blue balls after we were cuddling for almost an entire night. She was on her period and felt dirty at that time so we didn’t do much, and I’m not able to cum from handjobs or bjs.

I don’t really know what to do man. It kinda ruins the moment for us after a good 30+ minutes of foreplay, slowly undressing each other and I lose the erection shortly after.

As for jelquing I only do the basic routine and I go very lightly doing them.. I’ve seen some gains and never injured myself so it’s been going well in that department

I watch porn 2-3 times a week at most, very quick sessions too

Dude, your libido ebbs and flows. It’s not constant. I’ve had to accept that about myself. There are times where she won’t even have to touch me and I’m rock hard and ready to go. I’m currently at a low point where I need more foreplay and I need her to give me a litte extra motivation. Just communicate with your girl that you need her to show you that she wants you a little more than usual and to be patient and it will work itself out. It takes the pressure off you and just allows you to enjoy it until you’re ready.

If this is a new thing don’t worry, it happens.

If it persists you need to talk with her about sexual trust and boundaries.

My wife and I went through about a year of difficulty to the point where I wouldn’t respond to her at all and we nearly split permanently.

She told me that she thought I didn’t find her sexually attractive any longer, and I had to tell her she was being impatient, which was and still is a huge turn- off for me.

We have talked and worked together and discovered an amazing new desire for eachother that she is eager to commit to and she gets railed like she likes as a result.

I’m curious if things have improved for you or not, heavymetalninja?. I hope so! :)