Thanks hyyprr!
Ok, here are some of the discussions I had with my gf mainly in the last couple of weeks (phone, email, msn), keep in mind that we have a very good communication, we thrust each other very much and we feel that we can talk about any thing, our favorite topic being sex:
- At one point when I felt it was a good time to ask about size/previous partners, my approach was to ask her if she thought that we were a very good match. Her reply was…of course, I should’ve known…”well, what do you think?” Well I said, sometimes it feels a little tight (knowing that I hurt her a little bit at times even if it feels very good for me), most of the times it feels like a perfect fit and sometimes but rarely it feels like there some extra space to fill… this was a very honest answer by the way. So I threw the ball right at her again and she simply said that she always thought I was pretty big, biggest she had (girth) and that she had never achieve vaginal orgasm before me… no more concern for me about girth! As for as anal, she already told me “stay away from my anus with that thing”. Then I asked, how about length and she said she had one previous guy who was longer than me and couldn’t get it all in but he was careless, it was very painful and she didn’t like it. I guess bigger was not better in that case. That’s when I told her about CDS/epicenter stuff and she didn’t know too much what I was talking about, but said that she can’t wait to learn about it and explore/experiment new things with me.
- One other time I asked her if I wanted to get my penis a little bigger (girth and length) either through surgery, some magic pills or some miraculous exercises (hey PE his miraculous) because it would make me feel better about myself, what would she say. I have to say here that this was my way of asking her if she might like me bigger instead of asking her if she enjoyed a bigger previous partner. Her answer was, “Well, I think it would be a very selfish thing to do because I think you would hurt me and I couldn’t do BJ anymore, but hey, if it would make you happy, you can go ahead.” Wow, either she saw me coming with my tricky question and don’t want to hurt me in anyway or she is totally honest. I would say the later because of what we already have discuss before and it’s true that while performing BJ, I can feel her side teeth rubbing against my head when I’m fully engorged.
What can I make of these answers as far as PE goes? I think for one thing, she is very happy with what I have, that I am quite lucky that she had lousy partners before me and we, as a couple, have a lot of learning and exploring to do (hey, sex was bad for me before her too). I know that my story would be different if my girl would have been with skilled lovers before me but that is not the case apparently and I’m not complaining.
However, I still think it wouldn’t hurt (no pun intended) to grow a little bigger to see how she will really react. Being away from her, she didn’t have the chance to “feel” my new gains so having another months to go before going home to her, I will go easy with PE and react from there. I know from what I read here that a women will adjust with time to her men’s size but as far as BJ goes, I don’t want to give that up so there is almost no way I can gain any more girth. As far as length, I know I hit the cervix in some positions but I’m sure I need a little bit more to reach the “special spots”. So I will remain conservative in my efforts in the next month and will see how my lady will react and adjust from there. In the long run, I think I would really be happy with 8” BP x 5.5”-5.75” EG…but like I said “listen and adjust”.
Thanks for reading and feel free to comment, ask questions or ignore me!
Cheers
