Prostate massage

Hey guys, I haven’t been here for a long time, but some weeks ago my GF presented me butt plug for men. I considered it with high spirits as I was diagnosed 2-3 years ago with prostatitis, so always worry about my erection quality and prostate state. Also I’m very open to any new sensations in sex and being straight I enjoy rimming much from woman. BUT that plug is straight-shaped and I suppose that it doesn’t massage well enough xDD

I mean, after using it - surely my erection, sensations and most of other sex-qualities improved. But I just consider that there is better ways. I visited urologist before and he described the process without details, so I just failed to do it manually with fingers. So, the core of this thread - is there on forum some kind of nicie guide to it? I used to read some articles across google-search, but well….not detailed at all.

I liked this thread (it’s starting message)
Super Erections Finally
but with my extensive experience with kegels, it was a bit hard to comprehend and I seek for some "more touchy" way, as I feel that plug works awesomeeely.

Or if there are some gay members, would be pleased to get a response about vision towards it and possible positive effects. Or enhanced ways to perform it

P.S. read about "Aneros" and massage here Does prostate massage increase prostatic seminal fluids? but I live in Russia at the moment and it is heck hard to find one of the brand.

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I find any g-spot vibrator/stimulator works for me.

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You did not said what you wanted. You want to know how to have prostate orgasm? You want to know how to stimulate the prostate? You want to link prostate massage to prostatitis? I didn’t understand what you wanted
If you seek to have some prostate orgasms you can start getting yourself relaxed, have good respiration in and out, then you put some good porn videos that get you horny and start lay in bed with saliva on your middle finger, then stick it in all up yo ass, let your index and ring finger putting pressure on the pelvic floor and with your middle finger you can to start some stimulation do some rotation back and forth, if you are horny this rectum area will be open for you to stimulate the prostate. Now if you want to have your precum going on it is harder with your fingers, it is easier with a dildo or something with a good length to stimulate the bladder. The bladder stays way inside and to stimulate it is good a toy like the one pornstars use always in bdsm videos, I will buy one in the near future, this is the toy > Varinha de aço inoxidável com ponta dupla, vara de massagem, vara de metal puro, pênis, estimulador de ponto p, plugue anal, dildo, brinquedo sexual para mulheres, homens|Brinquedos p/ sexo anal| - AliExpress if you buy the original it will be expensive, just buy this one that is a perfect replica (including the original weight). You can buy a penis dildo, but then it is up to you on how the girth and length works for your pleasure, some guys prefer big girth 6" or 15cm+ and other prefer to a maximum of 14 cm.

Sorry that I was inaccurate. The core of my question was about prostate massage and techniques for it. As I was advised to do it by local doctor and read a bunch of articles about it.

Orgasm just something that goes along most of times here, but not so crucial. I mostly just omged how even plug improved my EQ and expanded sensations. Awesome thing for sex, but I aim or hope to hit something that kfarrelldba(Or Kevin?) wrote/described in "Super Erections Finally", but using more "invasive" way. Cause kegels doesn’t work nice for me or I do them wrong/with wrong muscles(

Would try your approach this weekend, hope something new would come :)

Now I understand. One thing I noticed is that after a prostate massage just to stick the finger in there my penis will get hard faster, it does not mean my EQ will be better, but my penis will get a stiff erection. And after a prostate orgasm my penis will continue to this same pattern of stiff erections that is clearly not 100% EQ.
In my opinion you don’t need to have a plug while having sex, just in the preliminaries get your girl to finger you there and things will get nice and smooth. Please, also return the favor to her with a mouthful oral.

Yes, I know that feeling about stiff erection. It is also really nice in coldie Russia, I would say xDD so that is one of the reasons why I seek ways to reduce prostatitis symptoms and improve bloodflow in penis’ body and pelvis as a whole.

I thought same about it, but with plug it is…more unnatural, and so more exciting) If about mouthful you mean cunni - I love doing it and do good, but my current GF hates it much :/ reasoning like it is ticklish

Hey there,

I’ve just started the massage with my fingers, once a day and I do long reverse kegels while my finger is up there. It feels much like biofeedback surprisingly, there’s a sense of body circularity while I do it. I like it.
My aim however is not so much pleasure, but I would like to work on relaxation of this whole region due to lifelong premature ejaculation - especially my tight ass syndrome from early bad masturbation habits. Is more control of the ejaculatory reflex something you/anyone has noticed after some time of anal massages?

Best ,
Dd