Originally Posted by Bhauk
I have and thanks for posting them. I was just wondering if it’s any different for someone who will not even last through foreplay.
Well, you really don’t know until you actually get to having foreplay. As some have said previously, getting a raging hard-on from making out is normal, especially if you’re young. If you weren’t getting aroused by close contact, it would be an indicator that something is wrong or that you’ve gotten desensitized. Personally, I couldn’t figure out what all the fuss was about when I lost my virginity. I could barely feel anything for the first 15 minutes (along with a nice bruise from her getting on top a bit too forcefully) until I started feeling something near then end, and even then I had to concentrate on actually cumming. A thick condom will help (particularly some types of polyurethane condoms; I think that Skyn is on the thicker side).
Also, I tend to be quick on the trigger occasionally, so as some have suggested here, I try to get in a jerking session in the morning sometimes to make sure that I’m good to go in the evening with the woman.
Also, I just read something where a woman said that she blows her husband when he gets home from work every evening so that he’s taken care of and puts more energy into her later on. Damn, I wish I had a girl that did that.