Refractory Period...any ways to reduce?

But surely, avocet, you must play one on TV.

Chuck, you know a whole lot about prolactin. Give us some feedback.

I played a doctor on TV but they dropped me after a few episodes - too much sexual emphasis.

Thanks for all the great ideas guys, I think I will ask for a test next time I am at the doctors, I was interested in my testosterone levels anyways for other reasons (decreased libido, a couple grey hairs at 22) Last night I tried out the strategy of just not coming, and it worked quite well. I find it’s easier to get it up when I want to have sex again if I do not let myself cum. Girlfriend was loving it. Now if I could only gain another half inch and hit her cds from behind…I’d be golden.

I appreciate all the feedback, you guys are truly great!

Or you could cum and then spend 30 mins eating your GF out, fingering her, etc. She’ll be all wet for round 2. :p

>Or you could cum and then spend 30 mins eating your GF out, fingering her, etc. She’ll be all wet for round 2

Fuck that, multitasking is the key to PE. Use to time to get some stretching done.

What’s your technique for orgasm without ejaculation, Larry

BFLR

BigFatLuvRocket

Pardon the delay, just back from the Virgin Islands this early morning.

It takes a while to train yourself not to ejaculate but climax. You need to bring yourself, with or without a partner and I’ve done both, just before the point where you will ejaculate. And I mean just. If you’re fucking, one more stroke and its too late. If you’re jerking off, one more stroke and its too late. Than you must use the muscle that tightens your butt when you contract it and squeeze it hard. If you kegel, and you should to really be able to do this, you know what I’m talking about. Anyway, as you squeeze and squeeze hard, 2 things happen. First, you can stop the process of ejaculation and second as you do this, you will experience an orgasm.

As I said, it takes a while to get this down. You will blow many loads trying to get as close as possible to the point of inevitability, which is the key. After you climax without ejaculating, all you really need to do is catch your breath. You still have a hardon, usually a beaut too, and no loss of drive. Its a fine thing to know how to do. Now with the lovely Mrs29, I don’t use it much, maybe once or twice a month. One other thing, the more orgasms you have, when you finally do ejaculate, its a monster.

A lady wrote a book several years ago called some thing like “How to Make Love All Night and Drive Her Crazy” by Barbara K…..I forget.

Link that book at Amazon.com

Thanks for the reference and link. I’m familiar with kegels and that method. However, that is not technically a reduction or elimination of the refractory period. Reduction or removal of prolactin after ejaculation will pretty much eliminate the refractory period in theory. I have read of 3 different ways to do this:

1) chemical: take a medicine that is indicated for hyperprolactinemia
2) will power: continue screwing/jacking even though your dick head hurts and just work past that and
stay hard
3) relax just before ejaculation, that is, don’t all the muscles to pump your cum out, just let it ooze
out, then supposedly you can keep going after that.

BFLR

In the method Larry is talking about, you have to hold your suqeeze during the entire time of the dry orgasm. If you release, you will allow semen to flow.

It is my understanding that, with the Kegel method, no prolactin is released during whatever number of dry orgasms you have since it is ejaculation, not orgasm, which signals the pituatary to release prolactin. With a final wet ejaculation, prolactin would then take over.

Since the Kegel method can sometimes cause retrograde ejaculation, no visible ejaculation occuring leading you to think you have been successful, prolactin is released. You soon lose the erection you had before the retrograde event and the game is over. The resulting retrograde ejaculation will usually be apparent when you urinate.