Semen Retention

When you guys say tantra, which tantra are you talking about? There are easily over 100 tantras. Almost all have nothing to do with sex or semen. The ones that do have only about 1/6th to do with sexual things when divided by yogas, even less if all the various practices of a tantra are considered.

What’s PONR?

Have you guys ever had the experience of stopping sex and masturbation suddenly and having semen leak out all day? That happened to me after parting ways with someone and I had to go the the bathroom every 15 minutes to wipe up semen while at work. It’s only happened to me once, it was very strange.

Good question Sigmoid, I may need some time to answer that as I am not 100% sure.. I did also attend a Daoist week long workshop with Mantak Chia and that was pretty powerful/ interesting that was not the same as my tantra experience, but akin to it!

Whats up with indenture colony 47, is that what the good ol’ USA is known as these days?

Regards

PONR = point of no return. So once you pass this point your going to cum.

Hi Cheeba,

Did you end up writing about the Tantra workshop?

I don’t want to have missed it if you have.

SB

This is really interesting to me. Can you point me in the direction of any Tantra reading or something I can follow up with?

I’ve had a similar discovery, where if I just rush and force the orgasm I get depleted afterwards. But if I relax and keep breathing normally I can approach in a more calm manner. It builds in a way similar to how I imagine women feeling it. Rather than hitting PONR, pulling the trigger and blowing it feels more like the feelings build until they overflow. The difference being a much better orgasm and the ability to continue through it and repeat a few times.

So I accidentally discovered that its not semen loss that causes the depleted feeling (having had up to 7 big loads in a session), but something else. If this is something others have explored I want to learn what they have.

Your on the right path as all of us are Tantric, we just get conditioned to focus on the orgasm. That showing down then allowing the pleasure to spread throughout the body.

The best thing I did was to find an instructor. You can learn a lot from reading, however having someone show you is so much better. She showed me how to breath, use my PC muscle to help spread the pleasure, test the strength of my PC muscle and advice if I needed to exercise it, massages you with breathing and penis stimulation and all while showing you how to deeply connect with another person.

She also showed me how to massage her including internals. (not all of them do internals but this was the most valuable part for me) I actually got to locate her G spot with her guidance and can now do it with other women.

I’ve now reached the point where I can build the pleasure and feel and orgasm without ejaculation so I can continue to another orgasm. This seems like you are at the beginning of this as I also think this is how a woman experiences an orgasm. Best I’ve done is 15 orgasms, two of which my whole body was shuddering, and a final ejaculation on the 15th. (I think I said that in another post)

SB

Awesome post bro,

Man, inspiring stuff

Very interesting post bro

7 loads is impressive. The best I’ve done is 6 in a 24 hour period.

SB

Where would anyone look to find an instructor with a hands on approach like this? I thought Backpage was shut down.

Also, that’s crazy impressive to have that many orgasms without cuming. Surely an inspiration for many.

Google ‘Tantric Goddess’ and where you live.

Just so this remains on topic, she teaches, amongst other things, ejaculation control which you can use for semen retention.

When I first saw her I think she thought I was in the wrong place as I look pretty straight. She turns to me and says, so you do realise I’m going to touch you dick. I said yes. She then explained that it’s OK if I loose control and heaps of guys do. She asks me to tell her when I get to 8 out of 10 and she will back off the stimulation. I was just about to call an 8 when she stopped and that was the end of the first session. Since then using the techniques she taught I usually cruise around a 3-4.

Funny thing is that all the pleasure I have been able to receive and all the pleasure I have been able to give to my instructor and others has had absolutely nothing to do with the size of my dick.

SB

Your instructor sounds amazing. I was thinking you meant a Skype call until you started talking massage on you and her.

I’ve done a little bit of reading since seeing your post and can some up my total knowledge of tantra to date as “breathe”. From my limited experience its amazing how much you can get out of just retaining relaxed breath, rather than holding your breath and building pressure.

I look forward to pursuing this further, and with my wife. Thanks for introducing me to tantra!

They are full loads in terms of quantity, but they are slightly different in character. For me at least. I imagine a typical orgasm as a square wave, alternating between nothing and powerful contractions. These are more sine wave, ebbing and flowing between a lot and a little flowing out. But often continuously flowing. It doesn’t squirt out to the headboard but oozes out instead.

The orgasm itself feels better I think. Not just concentrated in my dick but across my body too. I tend to get quite flushed in my face. But after each one rather than feeling depleted I just feel more horny. As I said, each orgasm produces a normal amount of semen which has convinced me it’s the square wave orgasm - not the ejaculation - that causes you to lose your interest. In fact the ejaculations themselves make you harder and more sensitive. Particularly the first.

I have not masturbated in over 6 months but I am married and have sex through out the week. At least 4 times a week. I try to not have sex all the time because it blunts my PE progress. But what’s the point of PE if you can’t use your healthy unit? I feel like that’s the whole point. So as I was saying I have not masturbated in half a year I think and the last time I watched porn was sometime in 2018. I know I have not watched any porn at all in the year 2019 for a fact. I do practice edging while doing PE but never ejaculate.

My brain feels so much healthier without watching porn for a year.

15 orgasms? This sounds unreal! I didn’t know you could orgasm without ejaculation.