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If I want to ejaculate from a blowjob, I need to meditate on the feeling in order to do it. Otherwise it’s just a nice feeling that leads to no orgasm.
I’m the same way
I can go quick from oral, I just need control of the, eh, situation ;) edit: if I use dan tien breathing I find I last longer.
Get her to put some strong peppermints in her mouth. Makes an awesome blow job.
Or perhaps some pop rocks?
I can’t cum from a blowjob.
LOVE blowjobs, I cum quicker from a blowjob than I do from sex
If you’re yanking yourself off then stop. If you have a woman willing to make a go of it then make sure all that energy is ready for her efforts. That may help. I’m with 10inchadvantage, you probably need to focus on the feeling. If watching her gets you going then focus on her, if not, close your eyes and focus on the feeling.
Do yourself and let her watch what you do. The first time my fiance’ asked to watch me I was a little surprised … heck, now I know how she figured out how to push my buttons … but I did that and she apparently took notes :) . I remember her mentioning some technique that she began emulating.
If you know when you’ve got a bj or hj coming, see if you can’t steal away and excite yourself for a while before she gets a hold of you. If you’ve built up your excitement, pressure, tension or whatever you want to call it, it will bring the climax on quicker.
is there any other way to make it easier for her to finish me?
Make it easier on her and yourself…communicate with her. Try coaching/teaching her how you like it. Practice practice practice.
Ironhammer
Start- May 2007: BPEL 6.5, NBPEL 5.5, EG mid 4.75, EG Glans 4.5
Now- July 13th 2007: BPEL 7, NBPEL 6, EG Mid 4 7/8, EG Glans 4 7/8
"You can't build a reputation on what you're going to do"- Henry Ford
When me and my wife first started dating, we didn’t have the opportunity of having the house to ourselves that often and were still in school so couldn’t afford hotels etc.So, a lot of our fun would be in the bathroom or elsewhere whilst her mum was downstairs.
Sometimes I couldn’t come that quickly (perhaps I had wanked earlier on) so I used to concentrate on the feeling, always did the trick for me.
lol Note to self: “If you have a daughter NEVER leave them alone with boys, EVER!” lol
First of all, the correct spelling is masturbate.Second, blow-jobs are very low-intensity. So most men cannot get off on it alone. Hand-jobs may also be considered a low-intensity activity, but I think that we’re just used to our own hands. It takes my girlfriend at least 30min to get me off with her hands and mouth. It can be done but it needs dedication. It could be a combination of her not knowing what will get you off and also you not being responsive to the stimulus.
Personally, I’ve had a lot of fulfillment ballooning since it increases sensitivity everywhere (nipples, balls, perineum, etc) instead of just the glans. Do a search for it. When you get more sensitive and she gets more experienced, it’ll get better.
As for now, don’t worry about coming and maybe lay off the masturbating. Not masturbating will increase your sensitivity and not forcing orgasm will help you achieve it. But take note that I don’t think you’re over-masturbating. I just think it’ll help if you lay off. Let me know if you want more detail or if this wasn’t the answer you’re looking for.
Technique-wise, there are many instruction manuals online that she could read (or you could read and suggest she try). Try some at literotica.com (Top How To stories on Literotica.com for all time) P.S. Mods, is this an ok link? Also, this is a VERY good one:
http://prettydu mbthings.typepa … ng_for_sem.htmlMake sure you brush up on your oral skills too!
Personally for me, it’s better if she uses both hands since there are many more things you can do with two hands. Two hands and a mouth are priceless.
If you think blow jobs (and hand jobs for that matter) are low intensity, you haven’t had a really good one yet. My ol lady blows me so damn goo , I have to bite the pillow to keep from screaming when I cum. She’s great with her hands ,too.
I think the problem is lack of mental excitement. The brain is the biggest sex organ. If you cum too quick or you can’t cum, 9 times out of 10 the brain is the answer. I think that ,in your mind, you aren’t that turned on by these activities. WEither that or you haven’t been with a woman who is good at them. Many women look on it as a chore (and they tend to rush it, which is no good). Something they have to do. Those women don’t do it that well. You have to find a woman who enjoys t. It turns my ol lady on. Often she cums all over my leg (squirter) when she blows me. Having a chick enjoy doing you is much more exciting and she does a better job.
Just make sure you have no issues returning the favor and taking the fun trip downtown on her!
UberGoober
6-22-08: 7.5' BPEL, 7' NBPEL, 7.75' BPSFL, 5.25' EG
Goals: 8' NBPEL, 6' EG, 21' NBPSFL
This has nothing to do with this topic but I don’t know how or where to ask this question: is there a thread where people talk about their experiences with making their phalluses bigger and the impact it had on their wives or girlfriends? Thanks.