Something is wrong!

I am a healthy 18 year old guy. I do want you to take this post seriously and come with advices. For some reason have I never been the horny type of guy. I have never really had the urges to jerk off in the past either. At the most have I done it maybe 3-4 times a week. Always to porn or nude pics. I am circumcised, which I believe has made my penis very desensitized. I have, as I mentioned, always needed a lot of visual stimulation to be able to get off. When I have tried to do it without visual stimulation I haven´t been able to finish.

Lately though it has gotten even worse for some reason. Nowadays am I never horny. I have no idea why. I am very pleased with all other aspects of life so depression can not be the cause of it. I have waited at the most a week now without even feeling the slightest urge to masturbate. After a week have I managed to ejaculate to porn without feeling any real pleasure from it. Just to cleanse the pipes so to speak. But there is no real orgasm. I just ejaculate and my penis feels all numb. What the hell is wrong with me? This is really scaring me.

I don’t think PE is the only source to this problem. Sensitivity has been bad since young age. But after starting up maybe two months ago this last crisis came, and I don’t get any pleasure whatsoever from stimulating my glands anymore.

What I think is causing the “bad” sensitivity is my non existing sex drive. I mean at this point in life I should be a walking hard on. I should probably mention that my erections are good and that I quite often have morning woods. What I am missing though is that itch you feel that make you want to jerk off. What can create this lacking sex drive that I experience? I´m eating very well and exercise a lot. So those are no areas I can improve.

So has anybody else experienced my kind of problems or am I just born unlucky?

Yes something is wrong because you were 19 last year.

You smoking that herb?

You might be depressed (the chemical inbalance) even if your life is going great.

P.S- beating off 3 or 4 times a week is probably above average I think.

That’s some good regulating, Piet! He sure was 19 last year. He may have found the fountain of youth I suppose. Eidish you have some explaining to do about the honesty in your post. And as for your sensitivity problem it most likely has to do with your sex drive if you are just beating your meat because it seems like the thing to do then don’t, wait till you feel the urge to unless you never have a sex drive at all. In the case of that I have no answers for you as I always get the urge eventually. Also you never said anything about regular sex, so in case you have not experienced it yet give that a try and you will probably have much better orgasms from that. Masturbation can get old after awhile.

What kinda PE are you doing. Your routine, exercises, intensity.

eidish,

Anything you say can be used against you in our kangaroo court. Get a good lawyer.

Ooooh! Me, me, me, me, me !!!

I’ll be his lawyer!

Go to your doctor, tell him your problem, and ask him to do a full set of hormonal blood tests. If your sex drive is low on a long-term basis, it’s probably your hormones. Any hormonal problems will show up in your blood. I’m pretty sure it’s probably your hormones that are out of order.

Ha ha well I didn’t expect you guys to be so sneaky. Right I wasn´t 19 last year when I wrote that. I was below 18. So that was the reason for my white lie. I am 18 now but nevertheless do the problem remain. Hope you still will be able to take me serious.

I wonder if it could be the testosterone levels that is causing this? I mean I´m very well developed with a muscular body and hairy chest and all that sort of stuff. Could I have developed that without proper testosterone levels? I mean wouldn’t I have been all feminine?

As for the sexual experiences do I only have one. I was drunk so its nothing I want to remember. I am working on that as well. But since I don’t really have any sex drive, I don’t have any need to go and get laid.

Are you doing PE now and if so, what are you doing? Also how hard and how long is your routine?

Just because you are circumcised doesn’t mean you can’t be very sensitive. You are reading stuff like that and then your brain is turning it into some kind of false reality for you. I really think most of your problem is a mental one.

Do you know what your most powerful sex organ is? It’s your brain.

I agree at your age you should be a horn dog

What a great line.

I agree that some of it is in my head, my issues with sensitivity and beeing circumsised. But I still can´t quite figure out how it can controle my sex-drive. I mean isn´t that an instinct that should come natural.

As for PE have I never gotten further than the newbie routine. Always been extremely scared of injuring myself, which I guess is something positive. So I don´t think PE has got something to do with it.

What I want to know is if one could have problems with his hormones without noticing it but for the sex-drive? I have read some on the subject, but low testosterone levels always seem to bring other problems such as an underdeveloped penis. I don´t experience any of those, so could it still be the problem?