Staying erect.

Hey guys. I am sorry if this thread doesn’t quite fit in this forum, but I’m gonna go ahead and take a chance. I do consider this a newbie question and hopefully you guys can help.

Sex is great, as most of you know. The first 10 minutes or so are pure joy for me; my penis stays erect and full like a champ, but after that I hit some snags. After the ten minute mark my unit tends to go a tad soft; it’s relatively full but not all the way erect, if that makes sense. This is a problem for me because I want my girl to feel my hardest cock all the time, and the only way to get my cock hard after the ten minute mark is to get really close to the ejaculation point. I dislike doing this.

I’d much rather worry about pleasuring her than maintaining my own equipment during action, this has been a staple of our sexual relationship (pleasing each other regardless). Now I don’t have ED (erectile dysfunction) and that’s where this question stems from. Is there anything a healthy male with a healthy penis can take to make his cock rock hard? How are supplements like enzyte? Maybe take half a viagra?

Please post your experiences with penis hardening techniques or supplements, I really need some help here.

Have you been doing any PE? One of the positive PIs from doing PE is better erectile quality: Physiologic Indicators (PIs) to help growth!.

This might be part of the problem. After ten minutes, if you have been keeping far away from the Point of No Return, your unit could just be thinking, "well, no action here, think I’ll just go back to sleep." You might want to play around with some of the techniques in Dick Control: A Primer — particularly the idea of Cycling, which involves bringing yourself close to the PONR and then backing off. This can help keep your unit on its toes. "Maintaining your unit in action" goes hand in hand with being concerned about your lover’s pleasure.

As far as supplements that can help with erection levels, look into tribulus terrestris and tongkat ali.

Lampwick:
I agree. Yes, I’ve been pe’ing off and on over the past couple years, and every time I get into a consistent routine my erections become harder and fuller.

Cheeva:
1) Yes, that’s a good point. Maintenance of the unit is vital to your partner’s pleasure in many ways.
2) It’s not so much that I don’t like going to the ponr, but every time I do my cock likes to think it actually cummed, when in reality I only got close. This results in me going soft as well. If anything, I’d like to be able to get close to the ponr and not have to worry about going soft.