Thoughts on size, sex, and life

On this thread I’m going to talk about my experiences since 2017. Whenever possible I will try to separate things in three areas: size, sex, and life. I believe these categories will be useful. I will explain them in the next post.

I will try to be brief, but I suspect many posts will be long. I won’t talk about PE routines here. I will avoid making general statements about things or suppose things I don’t actually know or that I couldn’t verify.

I have dated multiple women since 2017. I have learned many things and collected a lot of information that I wanted to know and I suspect it will be of interest to many men here. I plan to talk about those ‘relationships’ one by one, instead of making general statements.

A good case could be made that the general conclusion of all of this for me is bad: I avoid any ‘serious’ relationships, I don’t enjoy sex anymore and maybe I wish I didn’t need to keep doing PE. Everything will be more clear through actual concrete detailed examples.

First I will use a post that I made in 2018 on a thread about how much size matters to women and about what men actually want.

To have a discussion about those things (size, sex, and relationships), it looks like men first need to really reflect and decide what they want when they meet a woman. We could put things that worry men in three categories:

(a) You want to be her *biggest*. What to do: in most cases you will need to be greater than 8x6, maybe NBPEL.

(b) You want to be her *best* sex experience. What to do: you will need *some* size, but also 100% erection quality, stamina, different types of skills, confidence etc.

(c) You want her to really *like* you more than everyone else. What to do: here everything counts and I don’t know if you *can* know in advance what you should do.

These were general statements to start things. Everything from here will be based on personal examples and verified information.

The categories: (a) is about size, (b) is about sex, and (c) is about life. That’s why “on size, sex, and life” is in the title of the thread.

Wow, well started. I want to be #1 on all 3 items.

Here’s how it goes for me:

(a) I’m my wife’s one and only, by default, I’m her biggest man. However, she said in high school she saw a few…I guess women live with men showing them their dicks without being asked… And she mentioned seeing a big one. Never said it was bigger than mine, but just large. I wasn’t to be sure that I’m LARGE, hence PE.

(b) Again, I am her one and only, but this one really concerns me! I want to make sure that I’m “100% erection quality, stamina, different types of skills” and satisfying her well. I ask for feedback, but it always makes her blush.

(c) I think she likes me pretty well! We’re expecting baby 3, she asked for it! She smiles a lot.