Too Hard to Have Sex

Hi, I dont know where I can ask this question because my parents are very strict. I asked this question on a website for young men and woman but they dont understand my question. So basically im jelqing and already added 0.9cm so its going awesome. But now im just 20 years old and had this problem my entire life. When I get hard my penis is pointing to the roof. This is normal I think? But when I tried to have sex with my new “girlfriend” my penis is too hard to get down. Its hard to explain but when I want to penetrate I of course need to push my penis down so that I can go in her vagina. But its almost impossible to push it down and keep it down. This makes some postitions impossible. I found on the web that the older you get the more stretch your penis get. Can I train this and is this true? Thanks in advance

It’s called “erection angle”. For some teenagers the shaft will come close to the abdomen when fully erect. Bending it down can be quite painful.

It’s perfectly normal, and will disappear by your mid-twenties. If you’re in a hurry, some of the lig-stretch exercises should help.

And ignore porn for position advice, it’s mostly done for camera angles. If you think about it you can probably do most positions by modifying where your torso is: a draped over doggy etc.

Ok thanks, I can’t do stretching now but I will continue when my injury is over. It hurts when im trying to push down my erect penis. I found on the web that when youre erect and you push down your penis to the max for some minutes it can stretch but its uncomfortable when I quit after few minutes. Is this true?

It’s probably safer to stretch when you are flaccid.

I loosened the ligaments on the left side of the base of my penis by doing all my gentle tensioning toward the right knee or right shoulder. After 4 years I went from having discomfort - when my erection was pointing even one degree to the right of center - to having comfort for any sexual engagement you can imagine.

I’d say if you’re into PE, doing all your gentle tugging down toward the knee all hours (except in bed, when erections must be accommodated) will help.

In the meantime, just tell your partners (I don’t know why “girlfriend” is in quotes) that it’s fun and exciting to experiment and look for positions that work. In any face-to-face position, your superpenis is going to knead a female’s g-spot nicely. But don’t expect any evidence of how good that feels for her until she’s already quite aroused/engorged.

Be especially careful letting here get on top of you, because she could wrench your penis a way it’s not ready to go and send you to the emergency room.

Don’t rule out a non-penetrative face-to-face position where you rub your frenular area on her well-lubed clitoris (and maybe deploy a double-ended vibrator in her vagina and anus). This is the first way (minus vibrators) that my first sex partner and I climaxed together (for a couple months of dating) before we shared penetration (which neither of had done before).

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I loosened the ligaments on the left side of the base of my penis by doing all my gentle tensioning toward the right knee or right shoulder. After 4 years I went from having discomfort - when my erection was pointing even one degree to the right of center - to having comfort for any sexual engagement you can imagine.

I’d say if you’re into PE, doing all your gentle tugging down toward the knee all hours (except in bed, when erections must be accommodated) will help.

I don’t quite understand this because im not english or american. And why should I do only 1 side because my penis needs more flexibility on both sides I think? Also good tip for on top, I asked the ggd here (they answer questions about sex for teens) and they say the penis cant break that easily but Im so afraid it will happen. I want my penis to be more flexible in 1 year or more but If I understand you correctly it can take 4 years?

Just stretch straight down while completely flaccid.

Hold each stretch for 30-60 seconds, and ideally warm up beforehand, or do this in the shower after you had warm water on your for a few minutes.

I don’t mean to say YOU should tug toward only one knee. You would likely tug toward alternate knees on alternate days.

Google “rupture of corpus cavernosa” or “penile fracture” or “broken penis” to read (stupid) news stories about how it does happen, often to newlyweds, often with very disrespectful news coverage.

I took note of the change after 4 years of tugging. I didn’t really check on my flexibility every month or every year. Your flexibility may improve rapidly.

NEVER tolerate pain.

Ok thanks. I will stretch straight down as soon as I can.