Too much masturbating is bad?

I hate to say it but I think I have come to the conclusion that too much masterbating is bad. I used to do it at least 3 times a day usually closer to 5 and now it just seems that I’m the only person that can make myself come. Honestly it’s embarassing when my GF can’t get me off sucking me or giving me a handjob. Yesterday she literally was doing it for 20 minutes and it felt good but it never went. I think I may have to give up masterbation and hope I can regain sensitivity in my penis. Even during sex it’s almost impossible for me to get off, I am definitely not a premature ejaculator!

Anyways do you guys think it could be psychological or do I just jack off too much? Recently I’ve cut it down to once ever day or few days and so far I still haven’t seen any marked improvement in the sensitivity of my penis. I know somebody here has been through this before and I would appreciate if you would share your experiences and help me gain the ability to ejaculate from someone besides myself.

I heard that masturbating can also lead to blindness and hairy palms. I would cut back on the masturbation if I where you.

I’ve heard that if you masturbate at all you’ll reverse your PE gains!

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I’m just speculating here. But it might have more to do with how you masterbate than it does with the fact that you masterbate, or how often you masterbate. This was discussed here recently. I can’t find the thread, however. There is a name for this condition, which I also can’t remember. But the basic idea is that men who masterbate in a way that creates a lot of friction are in effect desensitizing themselves, which then makes it hard to cum when they are with a woman, because the friction is not as great.

Perhaps someone will remember the other thread where this was discussed.

It’s also possible that your condition has nothing to do with masterbating. You may be anorgasmic. Do you cum when you are masterbating? If you do, is it easy or difficult?

I heard if you masterbate too much your dick will explode

No, that’s what happens if you don’t masterbate enough!

:D

I’ve noticed that if I whack it even day before I get a blowjob, I’ll be a lot less sensitive, too.

On another note, what’s wrong with the counter for our new members? Seems we’re capped at 45,000 or something and Fixit has been the new member for like 2 weeks.

I’ve heard that this sort of thing will make you go to hell.

I don’t know how much truth there is to it, though. :)

I’ve never gone to hell. Unless “this is it” already, and nobody told me yet. Hmm…

Jacking off gives you pimples.

Everytime you jerk your girk. GOD KILLS A BABY KITTEN!!

:)

Too much of anything is a bad thing.

SWW007,

I also don’t come very easily, and I imagine it has something to do with my high-friction, intense masturbation technique. Dan Savage has written a lot about this. He agrees with you that adding variety to your masturbation technique can be helpful. The key is to resist the urge to go back to your death-grip typical technique, even if you can’t come through milder techniques. Eventually, supposedy, you’ll regain sensitivity.

But it’s really not very uncommon for guys not to get off from blowjobs — I know plenty of men who could care less about BJs (and some who worship them). The fact that you have trouble coming from intercourse, though, is more worrying — especially if you aren’t using a condom (i.e., are experiencing direct vaginal stimulation). Personally, I’ve found that with intercourse, the times I have trouble coming are when I delay my orgasm too long: the longer I “build up” and hold off, the harder it is to reach climax. When it is reached, though, its earth-shatteringly explosive, if I’ve been fucking for an hour or more.

This is why I love edging so much. The longer I hold back, the better it feels when I let go. The ladies love edging, also. Because we stay in the saddle longer.

Yup, that’s why I used to lock myself in the bathroom for an hour or more every day when I was 13 :D “Constipation, Mom!!!”

Edging rules!! :buttrock:

I’ve mastrubated regularly since I was 12 - maybe not quite as much as you SWW007, but BJ’s hardly ever made me come - A deepthroat might though!!…:D

If I’m in a pussy, well sometimes I can go hours and sometimes seconds!! :D

Don’t worry too much man, it’s the worrying that will distract you more than the wanking.