Using Abrasives like scotchbrite to desensitize and last longer

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Well, we tried to talk some sense into the lad I hope sense took root. Ballooning and edging feels good scratching the hell out of your dick head hurts!

I can see how sensitive people are about this and I spoke to him again.

He told me that hed only rub it to the point that itd be rough never till it became extremely painful nor any bleeding ever. He said he kept doing it every other day and eventually his unit started getting used to it and he swears it got thicker.

Now a few months later he swears by it and lasts quite a long time.

I mentioned edging, jelqing etc to him and he said all jelqing did for him was made him cum quicker even after 3 months or so.

Edging he said hed practice on the OFF days or when he felt his penis had calmed down.

You can see how sensitive people are about this?

FYI, it’s not ourselves we’re thinking of, it’s you and (other) gullible guys.

What he said.

But you know, it’s your dick, you rub it with whatever you want.

Personally I think it’s retarded, but there are a lot things done here that people might think are retarded. Whatever floats your boat.

I will say it’s absurd to equate Scotch-Brite with jelqing or edging; they are all completely different activities with completely different effects. If your friend is cumming quicker after three months of jelqing, then he’s under a misapprehension that jelqing will make him last longer. Jelqing is supposed to make your dick longer, if he wants to last longer he really should try edging instead. As to jelqing making him cum quicker…I think he must be doing something wrong. My guess is he’s doing sex wrong.

If you want to last longer in the sack you’ll be much better served by learning your body, finding out how it works, and attempting to maximize your abilities. That sensitivity was put in place for a reason. Good sex is about learning how to ride that wave of sensitivity and make the most of it.

It’s not merely a mechanical practice, whereby you’re somehow expected to slide your cock in and out at some prescribed rate for an unlimited duration, regardless of how it feels. It don’t work that way. And it’s a damn good thing it doesn’t.

You also should take a cue from the vast majority of respondents on this thread; there are precious few that seem to think the desensitizing (especially permanently desensitizing) idea is a good one.

The principle is sound but this particular method is flawed. Yes decreasing sensitivity will help you last longer but using abrasive pads for this is not a good idea I think. You’ll be far better off using something that feels closer to the real thing, such as an artificial vagina that’s real tight and maybe ribbed inside. I don’t want to recommend a particular make so it doesn’t look like I’m hawking my wares here, but there are brands around designed specifically for that effect - they are much tighter and more textured than a real vagina so if you can gradually build enough stamina to last 10 min with them, you’ll be able to go much longer with the real thing. It actually worked for me but in reverse. I used a fairly loose artificial vagina to restore sensitivity to a desensitized dick. When I first started I could barely maintain an erection with that thing, barely felt anything at all really, but after a couple of months it started to feel good and now I’m back to normal sensitivity-wise.

The principle is not sound; the principle behind the Scotch-Brite methond is to bring about permanent desensitization in order to reach the objective of lasting longer.

The above describes a different principle.

You are essentially talking about re-training your sensitivity to a given stimulus and learning not to be overwhelmed by it through practice. It’s the same principle behind edging; the only difference is you recommend using an artificial vagina.

Whether or not one elects to invest in such expensive gear is up to them, but I fully support the basis of this approach.

You could save yourself a whole lot of regular work by just slicing your wang open like a hot dog bun and gingerly cramming a big lead pipe inside. Stitch it up and you’ll never have to worry about desensitisation, erections, harness, PE or anything else again!

Welcome back secjay. Its so nice to know you haven’t lost your touch with that “velvet” glove of yours.

Cutting penis off with a chainsaw is in the lead. More votes people!

How could secjay not come back once in a while for entertainment like this? ;)

Well it’s not my place to correct him if he’s adamant about lasting a long time now in bed due to using scotchbrite.

Actually when I tried to point out that it was potentially bad for him and that he may have desensitised it to the point that he can’t enjoy it, got angry and asked how the fuck I would know?
In his own words(atleast general terms anyways) “I wasn’t being an idiot and rubbing it raw! Nor was I doing it everyday! I gave it adequate time and only went as far as I thought was safe. Never to the point where I’d be bleeding! I still have sensation and feeling in my wang but unlike before where it was just tooo much and I couldn’t control things and came quickly as soon as I penetrated, now I actually enjoy sex and can last a long time and when I do come it’s intensely pleasurable”

I also queried him on whether it was the edging that may have helped him and he thought that it must have helped but not on it’s own. He said combined with desensitizing edging becomes quite useful to train. Also used to perform kegels but it only made him come quicker but with more force.

Hmmm

Yeah, well how about trying edging only at first? Like for a couple of years or so?

Just look at the words Touchmeifucan….YOUR DICK….DESENSITIZING….desensitizing your dick….no gracias.

This “Kegels make me cum quicker” idea is bizarre too.

Let me ask you, was the Kegeling done during sex with a hard on, or after PE (or some time during the day) without one?