Funny, but the “why” is harder to define than I thought it would be.
Having a hard dick is a good feeling. Being aroused by a woman, even just the sight of a woman, is a good feeling.
I love women, and I love to flirt and talk and feel sexual energy between myself and a woman, even if there isn’t a 1 in a million chance of me fucking her. It is just knowing that I could fuck her, and giving her the energy that “I am available to fuck you if you so desire”, that is a good feeling.
If I was impotent, I’m sure my whole attitude toward women would change and it would really be depressing.
In my own life, sex with my woman is truly one of the highlights of my life. I hear about couples who get along as friends, but the sex fizzles out, and I can’t stand the thought of that. I need to fuck my wife, frequently, not only because I am horny, but because it is relationship sustaining, and relationship building, and it gives me peace. Sex is a big part of my life, physically and emotionally.
My horniness, and my averaged sized, but frequently hard, dick, play a significant part in how I define myself as a man. I don’t know if that is healthy or not, but it is part of my energy. You can see it in some men and some women. They have a sexual energy to them, and it is something you can’t really fake. I associate it with sexiness and and overall health.
Oh yea, and beating off is fun too.