What to do when girls talk down on other guys penis size?

Hello guys! I figured i’d share something with ya’ll. I was with some friends on a party recently. There was some girls there - one of the girls has slept with another one of our mutual friends - a guy who we barely hangs out with but it happens on certain occations. He is a nice guy, good looking and has had several partners.

Must of us barely know this girl and she just started rambling about how small this guys penis is. She said she couldn’t feel anything, said he probably has a micro penis and also that he came super quick and that it was a terrible experience. And she said it in a mean way, not like she pitied him but more like he was a bad person for having a small penis or something. I was very drunk and did not want to ruin the party so i kind of “played along” and made some comment on how it’s cool to be small but still mess around with a bunch of girls etc.

But now in hindsight i kind of feel disgusted that i did not confront this girl and said that she is very mean and straight up evil for spreading this to a bunch of guys that’s friends with him. It’s just weird how these girls hate on bodyshaming and all but have no problem just bashing a mans penis which he cant even do anything about. (Well he can, but the general public doesn’t know).

So what would you do in a situation like this? What should you say to girls who spread information about how small another man is? I just find it sad how many girls think it’s a “funny story” to tell how a man has small penis.

Sadly we live in a society where forgive the phrase

(size does matter) size shaming for men as I call it is no different than slut shaming females. It is hurtful & it can cause issues that go much deeper. I am a big guy, my fat pad keeps the majority of my flaccid penis hidden. As a youth I wouldn’t let a girl see it if I wasn’t erect. This came about after a girl had made a comment to my face about my size flaccid as she had it in her hand. This left me self conscious about my size the rest of my youth into adulthood. It left a scar, a big one too. I’m 45 years old & carried that & my insecurities till I was almost 44. I’ve been doing PE just over year in total. It’s because of this forum & PE today I can say those insecurities are gone. I’m sure there are many like me in this forum with similar stories. I know this for fact. I’ve 3 sons & they know they can discuss anything with me in confidence, yes even penis size. If it’s ever needed discussed my boys will be educated at an earlier age of PE & the benefits. We have to pay it forward fellas. Stand up for your guy friends if they’re ever size shamed. Then have the PE talk with the guy. He will thank you in the end.

Why allow yourself to be shamed? Is it the fault of the idiot that just says stupid things or us who takes it all too seriously?

I don’t feel so bad about bad mouthing, cause I work as a financial analyst and creepy words taken from the sky are heck fun to me xDDD towards me or another person, doesnt matter.

But I would share some worse scar that I have…well almost my whole life still. I had had in puberty THE WORST acne possible. There weren’t many bad words toward me in school or uni about it, but other hell bad thing - there was almost no “pleading sights” toward me also. You know, when girl is attracted to you simply by your looks in public transport or something like this. My overall facial features are nicely manly, but skin just atrocious. Of course I wasted nice sum for pills to overcome acne and now even made laser skin resurfacing. So that I’m starting to look something near “ok” or “not so meaty”(meat as acne scars make skin looks like it). Moreover I have overcame any possible accuses towards me about anything in character or physical appearances, but you know…..

When you don’t give a fuck about words and they can’t harm you, but it ends up that in many years you didn’t receive even 4 or 6 gentle looks from women. And each time I’m top-graded communicative person with bunches of stories, knowing when to listen to another and so on, but it feels so bad like I have to “prove again that I’m not monster-looking guy with nothing inside”. Really tiring thing.

So, why I writing this - I would like to be said “small sized” and surprise each girl with some “different size” than she thought or heard from a friend. Girls like suprises and this one is most exiciting for them. So, that even anti-intel works nicely here.
Also we wonder story and size of that guy, who was mean spoken behind his back. He may have awesome size and fuck throats during her bad mouthing, doesn’t he?

Jimmybob55 as for myself I don’t believe I took things overly serious. It was a traumatic time for myself. This girl told about 45 others of the incident within minutes after. My real first name is Tim. Within 20 minutes there was a crowd of students chanting little T. That’s how I came up with my screen name here LittleT. Were adults now & things don’t affect us in the way they would have at age 15. We’ve grown up & can process things much better at this age but there’s nobody that could have convinced my 15 year old self at that time that I was taking this too seriously & should get over it. To this day I see school mates that still address me as little T. I so want to pull it out & flop it on the table saying what’s so damn little now. I’m in law enforcement & can’t do such things so I just ignore them until they address me by my proper name.

I would bet I’m much older than you guys and see the world a bit differently. Quality, not quantity is what matters and as you age you realize this. Maybe we should try to pass this on to the younger guys, you know the guys that never listen, as it is a great story about life.

With regard to the o.p, maybe the guy in some way had pissed her off, or worse still, not come back for more? Women often have terribly fragile egos, and to even talk about that stuff, makes me think she was in a bad place, insecure, or maybe didn’t have much else in her life to talk about. Sad.

Just may be the most insightful post on this thread.

I don’t think you did anything wrong. In fact, if you had charged in to defend the guy, you might have compounded his embarrassment: i.e., “I’m so pitiful that I need some other guy to defend me.”

Also, you might have created the Streisand Effect.

Not a great situation, but don’t feel bad about it.

I’ve had this conversation numerous times when meeting girls with friends. 1- In your situation I would say nothing about the penis size thing, if you did confronted her you’d just be an asshole (don’t try to be a justice warrior 24/7 please) and people around you would get the impression that you also have a little penis and because of that the attention would go to you. 2- What I would say? My first friends with benefits was a ex-girlfriend of a ex-friend of mine, once as she was close to orgasm in missionary she said in my ears “you are much bigger than him, you have no idea how much difference you make in me” after she said it hit me like a car because she was telling about a friend’s penis and I truly did not wanted to know his size or her previous sex experiences, and while in missionary trusts after she had her orgasm I stayed in a thoughtful way of disgust of her and sorrow for my friend that I knew they ended their relationship because of that, and he was so shy to tell the truth to me. I said nothing to her after I fucked her, I went home after a piss and a glass of water and never talked to her again.

My advice is: don’t take the pains of others to you, it might get you into a dark place. If you walk into a conversation like this, don’t bother with nothing it is just their opinion.

You can’t control what other people do, or what they say. You can only control your reaction to it. It wasn’t a comment about your friend’s character or behavior, just about a body part. More of a reflection of her attitude than anyone else’s. You likely weren’t the only one who heard this comment and had a negative, gut-level, reaction to it. Don’t let it fuck with you so long after the fact. People will remember that certain others are shit-talkers, even if the shit talk wasn’t about them. This time.

To the original poster

When you encounter cuntish bitches like in your story.. I suggest you mention to her that pussy also comes in sizes very loose, loose and tight.

Yeah i agree - and also like jimmybob and relaxo said. Why even bother? Penis size is not the entire world and it’s just her showing her own stupidity thinking that’s a good thing to share with the world.

Yeah, but that would be a bit weird. “Are you sure you’re not just loose down there?” The girl is very promiscious and has been with a bunch of guys.

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Exactly,
direct or indirect will drive the shiv home