What's better to blow, large or small?

This is something that I’ve been wondering:

Do women prefer to give a blowjob to a large or small penis? I always thought the answer would be large but a woman recently told me that she doesn’t like giving oral to large guys because it is uncomfortable and is a lot of work.

From what I understand most gay men prefer performing on larger members. Isn’t it uncomfortable and more work for them too?

Another point is that a woman may rather have vaginal sex with a larger guy as apposed to a smaller guy, so the larger guys may end up getting a lesser percentage of BJs than the smaller ones simply because there is less interest in slipping into the pink palace.

Any thoughts on this? I’m especially interested in women and gay men’s opinions. Maybe some guys with good gains who have gone from small to big have noticed a difference?

Small or large, doesn’t matter. Except of course if he is a deepthroat guy…then I would prefer him to be on the average side. More likely to happen at that length than any other.

Sex, size doesn’t matter too much. It’s how he decides to use it that matter.

For those who like anal sex, size matters in girth to me. There are people who do it enough where it no longer makes but people who do it once annually or so, girth can be an issue.

I do not want to speak for all women, but I know of at least one that did not want to have sex with a guy because his penis was too big, but was happy to give him BJs.

She must’ve had a small pussy or a big mouth. I would love visual aids as a kitten and an old blabbermouth witch. ;)

You make do with what is presented to you. Obviously girth under 6 inches is easier to, uh, “swallow.” :leftie:

Anna, westla: Are you saying that performing oral sex on a large cock isn’t more of a turn on that performing on a small one, all else being equal?

Thanks for the replies.

Visually a big cock is a turn on. But once you start working it you have to worry about teeth and that means you have to concentrate on keeping your mouth open. Your jaw muscles can get fatigued rather quickly, especially if you’re trying to avoid scraping tender dick skin.

A lot of guys here want a big head, but for oral sex that can put an end to things quickly. If you can barely get the head in, there’e no point in trying for the rest. I’d rather a guy have a “normal” or even a smallish head, that lets me concentrate on the depth and stroke since the smaller head is more easily accommodated.

Depending on one’s anatomy, deep throating can be fun, but it’s also a gag reflex trigger and working on someone over 7 inches in length can be difficult for some. It takes practice to be able to relax enough to deep throat and it’s not likely the average woman has that much fellatio experience.

Exactly! But I like a nice juicy head. If I can’t get the whole things in, at least I can lick, suck and kiss around the shaft. Since the glans are tender, if I can’t perform the way I want to or am use to, at least a nice sized head can still add pleasure to an experience. Sometimes, just sucking it while having your hands roam various places, can help tremendously. At least in my experience.

And I think the average woman does have fellatio experience. I think most women have come across some man that wanted it and they did it. They may not readily admit to this fact. Now having enough experience to make a man climax/ejaculate is another story. Some men are harder to please. Gay men may have more experience than the average woman and may be more prone to ejaculate/climax during the experience or bring someone to the point of climaxing. Experience is a good teacher.

Yes, PE is a two edged sword. A gay friend of mine told me the same thing when we were talking about penis size once. Smaller is more fun to blow.

My girls mouth has been quite tight right from the begining, but even so, I am concentrating especially on girth right now. Just gotta try to get her to do some ME to even out. ;)

So nobody out there like to suck big dick? I guess this board is mostly made up of straight men so I shouldn’t be surprised.

I didn’t say I didn’t want to, I just said it could be a lot of work. :leftie:

lol @ mouth enlargement :p

:D :D :D Ditto!:-k

Speaking from some experience I say that medium-large is good. You have your visual (as WestLA points out); you have your acceptable girth (length in this is seldom something you take all of - gag reflex and all that); what you can take in without straining to get your mouth around is just right.

On the receiving end, a “knob job” may or may not work. Best if the do-er can take in a couple inches at least of length and work that, without biting. Biting is not nice for the receiver. Gagging on the do-er’s part is a turn off to any sensitive-to-others receiver.

It’s very subtle stuff. But one of the very best sex acts possible, imo, for both.

Amen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1