Why so much pre-cum??

Hey guys,
Things are going great with the new girlfriend. We got down to it this past 3 day weekend (Columbus Day) and spent the weekend together. After a hot makeout session, she reached into my briefs and took out my cock. From all of the kissing that we were doing, I was juicing some precum and she was giving me a hand job and I wasn’t even done yet and she stopped. It wasn’t a big deal and I asked her how come she stopped. She said, “Oh, sorry, I thought you were done!” I get a lot of precum from just making out with her. I guess she really excites me a lot. Is this normal? I get so worked up by her that if we’re out on a date or something and she kisses me enough, I’ll feel the wet spot in my shorts. Sometimes it feels like it leaks all the way through to the jeans. It’s kind of embarrassing. Especially if you get to taking your clothes off and you’re kind of turtled with precum caked onto your briefs.

A) Is this normal?
B) If not, is there anything that can be done to prevent it?
C) Do most women know that this happens? If you recall from previous posts of mine over the last year or so, I had an ex girlfriend who thought I had a “disease” because of precum. She thought it was actually discharge rather than ejaculatory fluid. I don’t think the current girlfriend has a problem with it, but I still feel like it’s embarrassing…since she thought I had cum already. I ended up finishing the hand job by myself while feeling a tit and then we didn’t speak about it. The whole hand job situation was never brought up again. It seems awkward that our first sexual contact wasn’t talked about, but nothing has changed in the relationship either, it’s still wonderful.

Any suggestions?

Explain beforehand that you are an oozer.

A) Yes, it’s normal for some guys.

B) Why would you want to prevent it?

C) I don’t know, but I think not. Most men don’t even understand fully their own pumbing.

Chongo,

Just tell your GF that it’s normal for guys to have precum, and, in particular, she turns you on so much that you have even more precum than usual. I don’t think most women know about this, just as many men don’t know the details of women’s apparatus. Be honest with her, so she doesn’t have to guess and you’ll both be more relaxed the next time you’re together.

Peforeal

Here’s an interesting thread I posted a while ago from some women about pre-cum:

Dear friend. There are a lot of thunders trying to be able ejaculate like you!!!

Enjoy it.

I also produce a lot of pre-cum - it isn’t a problem for me, in fact I think it’s great. A good free lube and shows just how excited you are.

After ten years of marriage I still have a lot of pre-cum that makes a mess in my pants, on the rare occasion than this nudist actually wears them.

If you want to make more precum (not what you want, we know, but for the other guys in this thread) then use an aneros . I found it has increased, over a lengthy period of use, my precum tremendously. And yep, I love it.

FleshJoe, by “over a lengthy period of use” do you mean because you’ve used it for several months, or do you mean that when you have it in for a long time during a single session you get a lot of precum.

I don’t really make any precum, but I think it would be great if I could teach my body to do that.

BFLR

Very normal.

Damn I wish I produced visible precum. I have to take about 3 times the dose of pygeum just to get a couple of drops.

I didn’t mean most guys have lots of precum — I really don’t know about that. I just know that it’s nothing that Chongo should be worrying about in the least.

Chongo,

you lucky bastard! :)

I’ve come to learn the more comfortable you are with yourself, the more comfortable you will be with your partners, and in turn the easier it is for situations like this. My ex-girlfriend LOVED precum because she knew exactly what it was. We were always very comfortable with each other sexually, so early in the relationship I believe I let her know what precum is. I don’t remember exactly how I put it, I didn’t give her a science lesson or anything, but I do know I pretty much just summed it up as my penis preparing itself for sex as I get more excited.

She loved the precum and would do all sorts of things with it. She had this great ability to tease my penis where she would use her fingers and slide them all along it and it feels great. When the precum would come out she would use her fingers and spread it all around my head letting it act like a lube. Sometimes she would play with my penis, then as it came out either gently lick it off or begin slightly sucking my penis.

In my experiences I’ve never had a girl be embarassed about the precum, because hell, they get it also. If you tease a women correctly, pull her panties down and I guarantee they’ll be just as moist as your boxers are. As long as they realize what it is they see that more as a turn-on because they understand that they’re making you excited. The more precum for my ex the better. I was with her for 3 years so I loved all the little extra insurances that let her know she still turned me on as much as ever.

I think as long as you’re comfortable you should have no problem with the issue. Anytime it seems a female doesn’t understand what it is, make a slight comment about it. One of my lines is, “Damn girl, look how excited you making me. My dick is soaking with precum already.” If they do know what precum is it makes them more excited. If they don’t they’ll usually ask. The comment answers the question pretty much anyway, so even if they don’t ask they’ve pretty much clued themselves in already.