Women Taking Viagra

Haha, I’m with you RWG, I’ve never ever had anal sex, but I really want to try it.

I’ve had many long discussions with women on how they really don’t want to believe what I tell them is going through a mans mind at times. They tell me it is cold and clinical if it doesn’t involve passion, but I think it’s not a simple as the dual state that the statement would have us believe. Here’s my take:

I think there are three cornerstones to great sex for a man, as follows:

1. Good plumbing (viagra type effects)
2. Libido and drive (testosterone)
3. Sensual (Seratonin/Dopamine etc).

I find that #1 has a place in almost any encounter, but #2 and #3 seem to fight for position. Both #2 & #3 are wonderful feelings, but at entirely opposite ends of the spectrum. #2 is forceful, animalistic, focused, pounding, rhythmical and almost transe like, whereas with #3 you feel more empathetic, warm, considerate, and happy just to ‘be’.

In a first encounter I will almost always try to be in the #1 & #2 zones, but as/if it becomes more of a relationship then I want to move more to #1 & #3 with occassional lapses to the former just to hot things up.

I doesn’t mean you don’t love the woman just because sometimes you want your reptilian brain take over for a while, and screw her right to the edge of consciousness. There’s the other 23 hours of the day for that :)

What amazes me about viagra is how popular it is. I don’t much like it as I think it is only ‘average’ in effect, and makes me flushed, blocks my sinuses, and even affects my vision at times. For me, Cialis is the drug of choice. I get none of the other sides, and it last for days at a time. I’m almost scared to use it, incase I somehow become immune to it. So I save it for the very special occasions. You can get it for about $1 a dose too. That combined with high testosterone is like a one two punch for men, though I can’t comment on testosterones effects for women. I think I’d be very cautious about it.

Just my two pence :)

Basically all life is a chemical interaction. Whether it be the box of chocolates someone suprises you with, the wine or champagne you drink, or a loving embrace. Some form of a chemical interaction happens to get the juices flowing so to speak. So drugs is a very semantic argument. But whatever works for you is what is best I guess.

I’m somewhat with TT on this. Nothing tells me a woman likes me more than a bottle of Jack Daniels!

“Basically all life is a chemical interaction.”

How true, I like that TT.

I’ve only given my wife Cialis(tadalafil) twice, and she definitely gets wetter than usual with it. She’s usually does not lubricate well. I don’t need to ask her if sex is better with it.

I’ve only used it once for myself. I have perfectly fine experiences with Viagra, so I’ll save the Cialis for her.

I didn’t know that amphetamines cause dick shrinkage in most men! I that true?

I dought it, iv only tried E once and wont do it again, a friend of mine gave it to me for free and asked me if i wanted to go to one of them rave parties with plans to bring a few women back and have some crazy sex, hopefully some group sex.Anyway it didnt work out that way, seems like the girls there are in there own little dance trance.

I crashed for a few days later and felt very strange, i didnt know who i was(not literally)and couldnt look at family and friends without getting filled with this strange feeling.It also gave me anxiety, hot and cold flushes, paranoia of going insaine which only made things worse.I ended up telling my freind about it and he assured me i wasnt loosing my mind it was just the drug that is bringing on the paranoia and that i was working myself up.He told me it was a very strong pill and that i should relax and keep my mind occupied and let the drug wair out.His reasurance helped a lot but i went to a drug clinic for some professinal advise, in the end it turned out that i had anxiety and a few panic attacks.The doctor prescribed me some drugs but i decided not to take them, after that i stopped smoking weed and cleaned myself up, mind, body and soul. I ended up finding the women of my dreams about 2 months later.She was the perfect most beautiful person /partner/companion/friend and lover and would be mother to my children.She was my perfect wife and person i needed in my life.If you have noticed i used the word WAS (past tence), yes shes left me because i started smoking weed again and it got back to my ussual dayly routein.She said i either get off it and get help or she leaves, i didnt take her serious and keeped telling her my canibis use was not a problem.The problem was, i thought it wasnt a problem and that i was as normal as any straight person but what i realised is that other people see what i didnt see.I know realise i made many mistakes and stuffed things right up with her its now something i have to live with.Iv since gone clean and have started getting consouling but its too late now.Iv tried contacting her many times, the last time i spoke to her she said she has moved on and found someone else, she told me shes so glad i gave it up and am getting help but she is in another relationship now.She told me to be happy and wished me all the best she said she loved me and that i will make some girl very happy someday, she said im sorry but i have a new life now. Iv lost my job and have been depressed and have started my addictive behavers again, not drugs but i find myself spending a lot of time at my computer collecting porn
smoking cigarettes,drinking coffie and beers,jacking off sleeping for 15 hours and wanting to be alone.It all happens in the same order almost every day for the past 2 months since i spoke to her.I should at least stick to a steady PE program.

I started smoking weed at age 13 on and off and 21 years later im still doing it.My parents where hippies they use to do LSD and everything and they still smoke on the occation if they can get it (yes my father even asks me for pot).Iv got a high tolerance to dope or at least i think i do, most people wouldnt be able to pick me as a smoker because i dont look like your typical weed head,i.e dirty torn cloths, smelly with piercings, tats and dreadlocks.And no i dont dont drive a combi van with flowers so dont genaralise, im a normal looking working (ussually) person just like you.All i can say is Marijuana is a drug just like everything else and must be treated like one.I think if you can keep your dope smoking to say once every cople of months then thats okay if you can keep it at that.I dont buy into what people say that once a week is okay because that once a week turns into twice then three then a dayly thing.Trust me i have some much exerience with it, i would never ever say anything bad about pot, never i would alway defend it but not anymore.And one thing for sure i would never ever let my kids smoke it, no fucking way.As for the E well it was a lesson well learnt i should have been mature enough to turn it down its just not worth it.Look what happen to me it could happen to you.And yes johan its true your dick with shrink while your on it, it will actualy shrivly up when falcid but it does go back to normal, so stay away.

That is the second time i tried to edit my post because i didnt proof read it and check the spelling.Im actually really pissed off right now because its the second time it has said i have exceeded 10 minutes of editing time which is totally bullshit, it hasnt even been 1 minute.This issue must be fixed.

Changing the time limit is beyond my control. If you are writing something as it strikes you, (slowly and haphazardly as it enters your mind) please use Wordpad or Notepad and then cut and paste it in. They have had this 10 minute rule for a long time now. I remember it really used to hit the guys who were long in words in the opinion forum. By the time they hit submit it would time out and all data would be lost.

Hey jelqking,

I’ll ask the tech mods to look at the timer and see if it starts when you first start your post or if it starts after you hit the submit button. It sounds like it is not working correctly for you. I’ll get it checked out, but the ten minute limit is there for a reason and won’t be changed if it is working correctly. It won’t happen until tomorrow though.

Jelqking, I checked it myself in this forum. The 10 minute edit time limit begins when the post is submitted. If you edit between 5-10 minutes after posting the “edited by” wording appears.

Do you have any mysterious marks on your body in addition to missing time? The aliens might be at it again. Pesky bastards. :)

hobby,

I believe the “edited by” appears if you submit your changes after someone else sees the post. If nobody looks at the thread before your finish your edit, it shouldn’t appear.

MDC,

There is a five minute period where the edited by will not show. After five minutes (from the time you hit the submit button) edited by is added. At least that is the way it is supposed to work. :)

Hey thunders,

I have no problem with the 10 minute rule, but its not functioning properly.Like i said i would have taken maybe 4 minutes after hitting submit at most, and thats being generous.BTW i wasn’t pissed off at you or anybody else, i just wasnt happy with my post.Im only new to computers and am still learning, i don’t have the best computer so i get problems with it all the time, so im more pissed with computers that don’t do what there supposed to.I apologise if i sounded a bit feisty in my last post, it wasn’t directed to you or anyone else, i just thank you for a great site.Iv just been overall cranky lately.