750 different experiences from larger penis sizes in one file

I have a tendency to collect lots of data about things I’m interested in, so I decided to collect the experiences that men have had with their penis with a larger than average girth, length or both. The purpose of this was for me to set my length and girth goals as I want to have a penis size that is optimal for most women; meaning that it is big enough to pleasure most women to the maximum and will have no or very limited downsides regarding regular intercourse, oral sex and anal sex. The sources I have used for this data are Thundersplace and Reddit (r/bigdickproblems and r/gettingbigger).

Many topics have been created in the past about the ‘ideal’ length and girth and most of you will already have a pretty good idea of it, but once you see hundreds of experiences neatly organised on size in one file, you can see much more easily at what sizes the problems start for most men. I’ve colored the experiences as the way I see them, but feel free to do with the data as you like and remove the formatting.

My personal conclusions of this data are that regarding girth: 5.5-5.6 inches seems to be the greatest size that is still in the safe zone wherein it doesn’t give issues with regular sex and also oral and anal sex can still be appreciated and enjoyed. Between 5.5 and 6 inches there are reports of more teethy blowjobs and also girls refusing anal sex. At 6 inches girth there are plenty of reports of guys getting denied sex due to their size, girls being sore after and girls tapping out during sex.

My personal conclusions of this data regarding length: the problems seem to start around 7 inches BPEL. At this length there are plenty of reports of guys hitting the cervix with a decent percentage of women, which some women can enjoy but many seem to hate as it hurts them, especially at the doggystyle position in which it’s easier to reach the cervix. At this size and above guys say they regularly can’t go balls deep anymore or it hurts the girl. Also, they hit a girl’s IUD more often which can hurt them. A bit of a safer length seems to be 6.7-6.8 BPEL. This is also in line with ‘studies’ (that have often been cited here as well) in which women had to select the ideal penis size from a model. In those they chose 6.3, 6.4 and 6.5 inches length (NBPEL). So if you have an average fat pad of 0.3-0.4 inches, then 6.4 NBPEL and 6.7-6.8 BPEL seems to be the sweet spot.

I hope this data helps some of you to set their length and girth goals more accurately.

Nice work.

Thanks for your efforts. It’s good to have realistic mind set of what or goals are pleasing our women. A lot of time we start focusing on the competitive angel of the male mind set. Who king of the hill in photo land. The real deal is pleasing pussy one stroke at a time.

I think that the subject is much more complex, and cannot be standardized.

I agree with you, but it’s also an appearance / body aspect ratio thing.

If you’re a solid guy with a 6.5nbpel dick, you might seem below average. If you’re 400 pounds with a 6 girth, . The same.

If your girl has enough foreplay, she might want more.

If your girl has naturally given birth to 2-3 kids. She might want more. Plenty of variables.

The cervix has a limit, no matter how much foreplay you do. If you’re doing it for appearance, then fine, but you need to understand that you’re just trying to satisfy your own ego and your results in the bedroom will probably go down based on the average experience with larger sizes than I stated in my original post.

If you have a wife/girlfriend that you feel sure you want to spend your life with, then sure you can go for a bigger size. The data just shows that bigger than a certain size can be a negative to some women, so if you do ever separate from your significant other, the issues could come then.

Thank you for sharing, it’s a really helpful and informative information!

Great study, Dynamix — your conclusion makes me really feel good about myself!

Same for me! Bigger isn’t always better! The data is very clear on that

Great job, I concur!

This is great work! Thank you for this and I hope it continues.

I think that there has to be a "majority of women" category and "size queens". If you ask guys and gals that have both experienced size queens the data gets corrupted easily.

About Length you are dead on, the majority of women could have potential issues after 7 BPEL.

I have a thread going on girth and asking all if we could put into play a study that 5 EG is the first large tipping point in the majority of women. Your conclusion with "5.5-5.6 inches seems to be the greatest size that is still in the safe zone wherein it doesn’t give issues with regular sex" could be very valid. I would add that my conclusion is that getting to 5 EG gets you to the zone and this would go with your finding that it is up to 5.5-5.6 the safe zone.

This is a great thread and I hope to help with my finding as well. Thank you for this!!! This is excellent work and much-needed information, we get distracted with so much porn (where actors’ chosen are at a min is 7 NBPEL inches) and size queens that we forget about the most pleasing and amazing cock conversations from the majority of women. I want to be there!!!

I’m 65, my NBPL (7.5") and EG (6") are both above your posted averages. My wife is older than me, and I can agree, as she’s gotten older, dryness and elasticity, my size is definitely an issue. I always loved going balls deep, but that’s hard to pull off now.

The length tab in the excel file doesn’t have a list the way it does in the girth tab

Adding this video for girth, I estimate this with the average women’s hand to be at 4.75 - 5G

I also wanted to add this article here. A really good description of what the ladies are feeling.

Straight women explain what sex feels like when you have a vagina | Metro News

Absolutely magnificent Thread Dynamix! Thanks for sharing.

I was obsessed with ‘ideal penis size’ and did research it like a cracyguy, also looking at many same threads as you, and my conclusion was also ideal was length around 6.4-6.9 inches and girth 5.5-5.8 inches, so very very simillar to your conclusion.