I dunno, I think it depends on the girl, in my experience my partners liked my dick and perhaps I was the one with the issue, but it’s never been an inconvenience.Recently I pumped and clamped to 8 inches erect and 6 MEG and fucked my wife for a couple hours off and on….. I asked her if she felt a difference from my normal penis size which is about 7.25 BPEL and 5 MEG (though it’s been closer to 5.5 MEG nowadays)
And she said she noticed zero difference, which to me was both surprising and depressing as 8x6 was my goal and i thought that would make a huge difference.
The only thing she struggled a but with was the blowjob but even then it was just a bit toothier than normal
You can’t gain that much that quickly without a draw back and I imagine the draw back is pumping to that size would make your penis spongey rather than a 100% hard 7.25 you went to a spongey 8 and girth wise.
I noticed my instant gains from pumping make me spongey btw. Long term gains weren’t clearly but I’ve stopped pumping for now I broke the last one.